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To sadmaryland,
Consult your obgyn...you can get on certain types of mini pills when you are nursing so there is NO possibility of a pregnancy.
and yes, your cycle can be disturbed if you are actively nursing. And also yes, stress can alter your cycle. I know. Mine was off a few weeks ago due to unresolved issues and my having to see a lawyer again due to a bill my xh tried to dump onto me (20k)...his bill. I was very upset and no pms...nothing...and no way in heck I could be preggers...then about 3 days after stress passed, I get serious cramps and whammo...period city.
Your hormones are also regulating now. Going back to pre-pregnancy phase.
If you are living with a WS, somebody cheating, last thing you should be doing is worrying about pregnancy. Your baby and 4 year old need a positive and on target mommy in the house. Mini pill can give you peace of mind.
I know you love and miss your WH, but you should also be concerned with STD's if he is still sleeping w/OP. I would be more careful about that as of now.
Since you're taking good care of you, starting new and positive habits in your life, I would make your safety from std's priority...and also get on mini pill if pregnancy test is negative. You focus on you, healing, and the sweet little ones. Last thing you need to worry about is something like herpes or vd...let a WS worry about that. Just some kind words your way <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
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I'm feeling much better but still pretty tired. FWH just took the baby and the dogs over to his Moms house for a visit so for the first time in weeks I have a few hours for myself.
I had to cancel our MC session this week because I was so sick. I was very disapointed, I want to just get this over with. Deal with it, learn from it and move on. FWH is doing all the right things going forward, but doesn't seem to know how to deal with the past, i.e. just ignores it. Hopefully, the MC will help with that.
How are you doing today? Did you go get a test? Talk to a lawyer? If he is taking money from the joint account, you may want to open one in just your name and trasfer the money that you need for the household bills so he can't spend it.
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Kloe, I am not doing so good. I have caught the virus that the kids have passed to each other. I didn't have a chance to get the test yet and still nothing has started yet. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />
I am glad you are feeling better. It's to bad about the MC appointment. When we went to MC I always came out feeling better. Just going there made me realize a lot of things about myself that I could work on. Things that I really didn't see before.
I will email you more details regarding the other questions. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
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SML,
Sorry to hear you are under the weather. BTW, is the WS still MIA?
L.
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bump.
How are things? Thinking of you... Danielle
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I finally feel better. All the kids seem to be on their way to recovery also.
Finally got our income tax refund. It felt good paying off my car early. Also I opened up a savings account and also paid off my hospital bills that I had from delivering Chloe.
Also I got a call today for a interview. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> But I am having a slight problem with finding a sitter due to the fact that my mom now has whatever we had. Hopefully she feel better soon.
As for the situation with my husband. I cannot say much other than I feel detached, stronger and I am no longer depressed. I am moving forward. And I have a lot of things I really am pushing towards achieving.
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Kloe, How are you doing this week with your goal?
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I'm doing alright, eating healthy but haven't been able to exercise. By the time I get home from work, make dinner, clean up a little, get stuff ready for daycare the next day, and take care of the baby there is no time. Hopefully once the weather gets nicer we can take walks after work.
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