Crushed, I am so sorry you are going through this. My marriage had the same problem we spent our recreational time apart. I too am a hunter (in Texas) I would take my teenage daughter hunting with me. My FWW would do who knows what! She was tangeled up with some married low life from work. I called him and told him if he so much as looked at my wife again I would tell his boss and his wife and every one else. Well come to find out he had sexual harrassment charges filed against by another married woman at the same company with whome he had an affair. Boy was he scared. He never contacted my wife again. But I must say I gave my wife a chioce on D day. She could come home after work that day and never have any contact with low life again. or she could pick up her sh*t in the drive way and never return. She came home. We are 10 months past D day and things are great. If you would like to talk or need anything let me know.

BTW, I am a non drinking hunter, not many of us around these parts huh.

God Bless you
TMW

Crushed, I am so sorry you are going through this. My marriage had the same problem we spent our recreational time apart. I too am a hunter (in Texas) I would take my teenage daughter hunting with me. My FWW would do who knows what! She was tangeled up with some married low life from work. I called him and told him if he so much as looked at my wife again I would tell his boss and his wife and every one else. Well come to find out he had sexual harrassment charges filed against by another married woman at the same company with whome he had an affair. Boy was he scared. He never contacted my wife again. But I must say I gave my wife a chioce on D day. She could come home after work that day and never have any contact with low life again. or she could pick up her sh*t in the drive way and never return. She came home. We are 10 months past D day and things are great. If you would like to talk or need anything let me know.

BTW, I am a non drinking hunter, not many of us around these parts huh.

God Bless you
TMW

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did I mention in a previous post that I was a non-drinking hunter in Texas as well? If not, that is really wild that you would say that. If I did, maybe my situation is starting to affect my memory! Anyway, glad it has worked out for you. Sounds to me like your FWW is probably of a stronger moral character than my WW, or your timing was much better in terms of fogginess. By the way, where do you hunt? My lease is in northern Medina County. We are almost run over by wild hogs. We shoot all we can and still cant make a dent in them. They sure are good in a crock pot or on the bbq pit. I would rather eat hog than deer!

You did mention that in a previous post. I hunt in Mavrick county between Eagle Pass and Uvalde. Yeah we are over run with hogs too. We shoot a bunch of the smaller ones, real good eatin. I butcher the hogs my self but take the deer to the processor. I spent a fortune on deer processing and like you said I would rather eat the hogs also. So now I have 2 freezers full of venison and no pork.

No my timing was not good. It took me 6 months to forgive her for what she did to me and DD. I read the book how can I forgive you. That was a big help. My DD still does not know and I will never tell, she would NEVER for give FWW. I think on D day FWW realized she had thrown 21 years of marriage and her whole life away for a real piece of crap...for nothing. She has done very well in making amends to me. She came to her senses real fast.

TMW