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Re: The Welderboy saga...
#1320299 03/15/05 09:22 PM
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Sorry Welderboy, I need 'Just Learning' for a minute.
Would you mind going to Finally Learning's thread, I have a question there for you.

By the way, worthwhile advice you just gave our good man, Welderboy.

Julie <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
Re: The Welderboy saga...
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Thanks JL...you really have a touch about making thing easy to understand..I've had a long day, and I'm going to grab a book and head to bed. I think a plan B letter, stating that by now she can see the amount of my love....but let her know that I too deserve more and need to not let go, but take care of myself...basically what she is doing, she said she 1st. wanted her life back, then perhaps start MC and dating if she decides to return. Should I mention...meeting someone, but not acting on it? Later, I'll check in prior to work. Thanks.
Re: The Welderboy saga...
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WB,

I don't think you should mention anything other than your need to preserve the love, and your realization that she does NOT love you hence her need to find herself, and then perhaps work on the marriage.

If ever there was a non-commitale statement that is it. However, it is clear she does need to address her own demons, so don't completely discount this. However, she needs to do it WITHOUT you in her life. So plan B seems like just the ticket. You will go through withdrawal as perhaps she will but hang in there.

You will find that the correct course of action will become clear to you while in plan B.

God Bless,

JL
Re: The Welderboy saga...
#1320302 03/16/05 05:26 AM
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JL, well put, I really seem to undestand the way you put things much easier. I slept good, and once again want to thank everyone for their part in helping me. Later, I check in tonight.
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