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We detest OW and wear PINK SUNGLASSES. We are open to suggestions of additional entrance requirements......
Negativity towards OW is acceptable.
A GODDESS recognizes her lofty position as WIFE not FRIEND.
A GODDESS does not accept crumbs; she expects a feast.
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I'd love to belong but I don't fulfill the requirements .....YET!!!!!!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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I'm working on it! Despite all the crap that's happened to me, I am a wonderful, lovely, sexy person. If WH doesn't understand that, it's his lose. Battered but not beaten! I deserve the best!
I pass on the pink sunglasses but I can dis OW with the best of 'em. And I can do it in words with many syllables.
I'll take my position as a demi-goddess right now but will work up to full qualifications.
Grapes are versatile. Grapes can be sour, sweet, sublime as wine and fabulous even when old and dried out.
Me: BS
XCH: Clueless
2-DS: Bigger than me
1-DD: Now also bigger than me!
5/6: Personally served CH with divorce papers
6/6: CH F? wants to time to see if M can be saved
7/6: FCH reenters our lives to work on marriage but secretly signs papers to start divorce...what's that about?
Mediation set for November
Final dissolution in January 2007.
2008 and beyond: Life goes on...
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I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. My Story Recovered!
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Our mottos is: Be Particular <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> I wear black sunglasses with rhinestones! Susan <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
Money can buy you a fine dog, but only love can make him wag his tail.
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When I need sunglasses, I use clip-ons with my bifocals...that's ok for a goddess too, right? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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Married 1983
H's co-worker PA began 1998
Multiple separations
Marital recovery 2000
H deployment 14 mo 2004-2005
Empty nest fall 2006
Whatever is true, honorable, just, pure, lovely, gracious...think about these things. Phil 4:8
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Oooh, I want in! ***We detest OW and wear PINK SUNGLASSES.*** It's very dark wraparounds for me -- but I'm with ya on the first one. ***We are open to suggestions of additional entrance requirements......*** I will try to think of some! ***Negativity towards OW is acceptable.*** How about full-blown hatred and loathing? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> ***A GODDESS recognizes her lofty position as WIFE not FRIEND.*** ABSOLUTELY ***A GODDESS does not accept crumbs; she expects a feast.*** You got that right! Mulan
Me, BW
WH cheated in corporate workplace for many years. He moved out and filed in summer 2008.
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i have made some very good friends here....that were ow. they have reformed and reclaimed their integrity and honor and i find this a bit demeaning to the wonderfull women we have here who give back so lovingy to us ALL!
im sorry if i am a wet noodle on this....i just think its hurtful.....
what we do in life......echoes in eternity!
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i have made some very good friends here....that were ow. ooops, I was one (OW) and I'm on here! I'm reformed. I luv, luv, luv my husband and I respect my self! Sorry Nikko, didn't mean to be offensive. Suz
Money can buy you a fine dog, but only love can make him wag his tail.
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errrr, I guess I dont meet the requirements on this one...since I am in the D Plan! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />
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CHANGES IN ENTRANCE REQUIREMENTS: GODDESSES ARE ADAMANT ABOUT PROTECTING THEIR DELICATE EYES FROM UV RAYS: : Any form of sunglasses are acceptable if worn with dignity. Stylish glasses are of course preferable but any form of protection will suffice. ALSO NOTE: Sunglasses can be worn at any time, by choice, for MYSTERY AND ALLURE. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> NEGATIVITY TOWARDS NON-REPENTANT, DEVIOUS, NUTTY, SMUG (YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN) OW IS ACCEPTABLE: Reformed OW are perfectly acceptable as members. In fact, GODDESSES want to learn from them. A GODDESS RECOGNIZES HER LOFTY POSITION AS WIFE NOT FRIEND TO THE EXTENT THAT SHE IS WILLING TO GO NC WITH WH OR EVEN DIVORCE HIM IF HE DOES NOT HONOR HER VALUE: Whew! How's that for a long rule? So I now deem CC, GRAPEGIRL and MOTHERTO3 as FULL GODDESSES to join us others on the throne. Keep wearing those togas, GIRLFRIENDS!!
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A GODDESS RECOGNIZES HER LOFTY POSITION AS WIFE NOT FRIEND TO THE EXTENT THAT SHE IS WILLING TO GO NC WITH WH OR EVEN DIVORCE HIM IF HE DOES NOT HONOR HER VALUE: <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> THANK YOU!!!! I feel good now! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />
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Yippee!!!!!! I'm a goddess, I'm a goddess! That has made my day! I thought the sunglasses were for mystery and allure... We goddesses will welcome a repentent, seen-the-light OW with open arms, meaning the kind that will never do it again. But it's open season on the other ones.
Excuse me, I have to go check the drape of my toga.
Grapes are versatile. Grapes can be sour, sweet, sublime as wine and fabulous even when old and dried out.
Me: BS
XCH: Clueless
2-DS: Bigger than me
1-DD: Now also bigger than me!
5/6: Personally served CH with divorce papers
6/6: CH F? wants to time to see if M can be saved
7/6: FCH reenters our lives to work on marriage but secretly signs papers to start divorce...what's that about?
Mediation set for November
Final dissolution in January 2007.
2008 and beyond: Life goes on...
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Please note ADDENDUM TO SUNGLASSES RULE. Thanks to GODDESS GRAPEGIRL!
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Well,
I'm back, under my origional name...but will need to go have a spa treatment in order or something MAJOR to overcome the trauma of finding myself once again.
Need to find pink sunglasses - and when I do....I'll be back. If goddesses wear halos, mine needs a polish. But I don't think goddesses whine - so I better leave...for now
"The actions you speak are louder than your words!"
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"Miracles are seen in light."
From "A Course In Miracles".
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Picture this...
I am wearing VERY pointy toed, 3" heeled, PINK suede boots. They scare and excite my H at the same time...they are sexy, but he's afraid I will kick him with them...
"These boots are made for walkin'..." and dancin, and typin, and whatever I feel like!!!!
Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well dance!
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I want to be a goddess with lashes so long they brush against the lens of my sunglasses. That's when I take them off to wink at them gods <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
I do not blame the xwh for his affairs and abandoning our marriage. He fulfills 90% of the Cleckley Criteria
I forgive him for his insanity and I forgive myself for being gullible to his charms.
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OMG! STILLHERE WINS GODDESS FOR THE DAY! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
I have got to find those boots!!!! They would perfectly match my sunshades and purse.......
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my goddess status is like a new bud ....
ready to burst into full luscious bloom....
are texas pasties permitted
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This Goddess (another "Be Particular" club member) also wears a tiara!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
Married '85
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D-Day 7/02
Plan B 5/03, 7/03
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