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Oh I am just so impressed by the way you handled yourself when he came home last night.

You put me to shame.

Good for you, Plan A must come a little bit naturally to you.

Rock on, notsoyouneak!

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You handled him just right. I read Surv an Affair three times in three weeks. I'll read Love Must be Tough a second time this weekend.

An hour with Steve Harley is better than any counselor I've ever been to. It puts you in the right place strategically.

You're OK. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" />


What doesn't kill us makes us stronger. Me 41 WS 39 DS 19, DS 9 DDay 2/25/05 Divorcing....
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In the matter of housing, the place we actually live belongs to my mom and elderly GP....

OK, 'neak - if the time for Plan B ever comes, you likely can kick him out and he'll have no recourse - if your Mom and GP agree. Do you have a lease that gives him any rights?

But you're a LONG way from Plan B.

Please report on the spread of exposure and any reactions from your H or others.

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Later today I will start my 'home thread' now that I am not in some type of urgent crisis, but I see a few questions from several that I had not answered yet.

Counseling with SH is a terrific idea, tho I probably won't be able to do it right at first. I'm sure the book will be a great help tho.

WAT, there is no lease or anything that would give him a legal right to stay here, & as far as Mom being willing, she has all she can do not to throttle him right now - definitely not patient with the alien. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

RE exposure, I'm still too sick to go up to his other job, that will probably have to be next week, but I decided to talk first to someone there I know can't stand the OW, in fact was instrumental in her losing her job. I just got a fresh favoritism complaint from an employee yesterday, which I will also pass along to the VP & keep you posted.

I have no say whatsoever about who works here. I am the humble secretary, nothing more. The payroll checks are not only presigned but sealed already into their envelopes.

OW apparently does not have much in the way of family, & they're on the other side of the country. Don't know if finding & contacting them would be an option, but I'll look into it.

One other thing, a good F friend of WH is bound & determined to track down OW and give her a piece of her mind. She can do it, no question, & tho OW won't give a rip about breaking up a family, I figure it'll at least be good for a roaring fight between her and WH. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Jumping to other thread.................


A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
~ English proverb



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