Not to hijack the thread...Cruz, I am REALLY glad it wasn't you...it was close enough, but with it being someone using another name because they were ashamed, I thought it might have been you...Whew!!!

Anyway, back on topic...MessedUp---CONFESS everything to your W and SEEK HELP! You are at a crossroads with your M and you need to start repairing your M with BOTH of you knowing about EVERYTHING!

At the point of honest disclosure, if you REALLY love each other, healing and recovery can begin...it's HARD, but either way (renewed M or D), the peace of mind you will have for having given your ALL will help immensely.

WNB


43yr old FWH who has rediscovered morality Divorced: 03 February 2006 XW: My threads say it all "Well, I guess if a person never quit when the going got tough, they wouldn't have anything to regret for the rest of their life..."