Mo, Lady, Peachy2..

Thank you for the advice about the kids going to my MILs. I am going to talk to her Monday about it and find out how to make this work...
Danielle

This part of your sig, Dani, gave me the giggles. Sorry!

Now, if I recall, you can't get a custody arrangement done yet because no divorce is filed, right? Cuz Maine seems to have some weird rules.

Maybe give a call to the people at the police station- if Im remembering correctly, you said they are aware of the situation with him breaking the RO with the OW. Maybe ask them what to do if H tries to take the kids? *sigh* Your situation is all screwy.

My personal take- he won't try to take the kids. It would be too much responsibility for him.

You're kidding right?

peachinanSVT,

Don't change a thing. Nothing wrong with a little 'fresh' fruit.

We will always know the other peachy as the old peach. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

I read something LM said about my siggy, which was true. I posted about the RO that WH and I got when it was important. Now the whole things seems quiet odd, so I changed it <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

I have a meeting with the police and DA on Monday regarding the whole checkbook thing. We should see the tapes then and possibily catch him with the OW. If that IS the case, then they would both have warrents out. That would solve a lot eh?

I personally don't think he would take the kids either. I mean, WHERE would he take them? To the OWs? Yea, that would wind him up in jail again quick.

The only way to get a custody hearing is once a DV is filed you can get a temp. one, or if you are not married and have children. It is set up that way because a DV is quite easy to get in Maine. IF you can serve them.

Danielle
P.S. Do you mind sharing your e-mail with me again? I forgot it.
Mine is mainemomof2@maine.rr.com feel free to e-mail me <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Logically, I agree with you. But you're not dealing with logial people. Hope for the best, prepare for the worst.

Dobie

Thanks, BA. When my friend referred me to MB a while back for advice, I registered with the SAME username I use on EVERY site. I haven't gotten up the courage to post about my situation, which I'm thinking may be a GOOD thing. Every time I post about anything, the "Username Police" jumps my @$$. I didn't know there were such strict requirements for nicknames around here. I tried explaining where my name comes from, but she won't stop hounding me. (Possessive much?)

Anyway, thanks for the kind words. I wasn't planning on changing my name anyway - my husband gave the Peachy part to me (has to do with my last name - he gave it to me when we were dating) and I happen to drive a Mustang SVT. I'm not changing my maiden name, or selling my car, so people will have to get over their complexes.

Thanks again, BA. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

Hi Dani,

"I personally don't think he would take the kids either. I mean, WHERE would he take them? To the OWs? Yea, that would wind him up in jail again quick."

And your sig line: WH seems to enjoy his jail time.

I wouldn't put MIL in the situation to have to stand between her son and her grandkids without legal right to do so. I don't think she is ABLE to stand up to him Dani. I think she would tell you that she would, and I believe that she would want to be able to, but I don't think she CAN. Be cautious ok?

Threadjack: I noticed the difference in writing and then saw the explanation on a thread (can't remember which one). Would either of you be willing to start an announcement thread and put it in the title so that this matter gets settled?

Dani, you said that you think your WH has a drinking problem. Have you tried Alanon?

Take care Dani--and the two peaches too <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Danielle,
Whenever you get very quiet I worry a bit. I know, horrible of me, but I hope you are ok and that your doctor's visit was not too traumatic for you.

Check in when you can, ok? I know this Father's Day will be very hard for you.