Well, it's not even that she is even into the night club scene anymore, or ever really was.
The point is that she likes to have fun, I haven't, and I haven't made an effort to have fun with her.

I think one of my problems is that I have used our children as crutches, and focused solely on them, doing everything with them, using them as an excuse for not doing anything else...to the point where I forgot how to just have fun with my wife.

We have great times on family outings (when the kids are behaving <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />), but when my wife and I have been alone together, it's like I forgot how to just have one-on-one intimacy with her. With the exception of bedroom funtime (which has come down to once, twice if I'm lucky, times a month), I have completely lost something of my own humanity when I'm with her.

I want to get it back.