Hi Committed...

Yes, I totally agree. When I called WH up the day my test results came back, he said "You didn't get it from me!"

And he has been lying or downplaying it ever since. He tried to pull the wool over my eyes about, but hey, I'm a nurse....I KNOW how you get it.

And now he says that OW didn't know she had it. I called BULL on that one too!

Personally, I think (they were together for over 3 years) that either OW was cheating on him (even tho he says she would never do that to him), and contracted it during their A, or she had it all along and never told him about it (because she's a moral honest woman).

When he was tested, he was in the acute phase, and did not have it chronically. How could he sleep with her for over 3 years and not contract it before?

I don't think I will ever get over that one.

Just like I always tell young people "USE PROTECTION!!!" That goes for all MB adults as well. The std's out there now can change your life forever - or end it.

K