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Thank You, Octobergirl! Yes, I have come a LONNG way. And much personal growth has been achieved. That is what MB has done for me. I want to think that even if H had chosen to not come home, or I had chosen for him to not come home, that I would still be on the great path I am on now, for MYself.
Because a M is only as strong as the 2 individuals that make it up, right? I don't want that wimpy M back.
You have always encouraged me and I love reading your down to earth, practical, very uncomplicated posts. You nicely sift through all the drama and get to the "heart" of the matter. Go 'girl!
Spidey
But that's totally, FEATHER PLUCKIN', INSANE!!!
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Thank You, Suzet! I will (I know I've told you this before, but here it comes again!) never forget that early early morning that I couldn't sleep (or eat, what's a girl to do?) and I came to MB, and everyone was asleep ~ except you, South African lady! And you posted those poems to me, and I printed them out and took them to bed with me. And by the light of my little lamp, I read them over and over, feeling my chest get lighter and lighter, until I drifted off to sleep. And I read those poems many nights that I needed to get off to sleep.
Thank You for that, and all your support and insight and caring. I love reading your posts! Take care.
Spidey
But that's totally, FEATHER PLUCKIN', INSANE!!!
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Hey spider,
Did you know that on the 19th I had my one year anniversary of the dreaded stop at OW house thingy?
Yup one year ago I stopped and had my say at her house. That was the last time H saw OW in person. Can you believe it has been a year already?
Gosh time flies when you are working hard doesn't it?
HINY
BS, Me, 43
FWH, 40
M 14 yrs, together 17
1 S 11,1 DD 1st M 19
Dday 11/1/03
Recovery started Sept '04
Recovered
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Dear Spidey, thanks for your kind words, I appreciate it! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> I still remember that morning I’ve sent those poems to you while America was asleep! I specifically remember the one poem about “it’s in the Valleys I grow” (my personal favorite). I’m glad those poems were of so much help & courage to you at the times you needed it most. You are welcome and I also want to thank YOU for your help, care & support at the times I was struggling... It was a long time ago but I still remember those times and although we don’t post much to each another anymore, I’m still reading your posts and enjoy reading it! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> I find that I don’t read and post here as much as I used to, but for me, I guess it’s all part of moving forward and leave the past more & more behind. Suzet
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I just wanted to pop in and say congrats! Both you and your H are wonderful people (had the pleasure to met both earlier this month). You guidance and kind words through my ordeal have meant so much. I don't post much anymore, too much stuff going through my head, but I couldn't resist this thread.
Best wishes to both of you!
BS (me) - 33
FWH - 33
Dday - 5/2/04, he confessed to a PA
Together 10 yrs, M 4
WH moved out 5/23/04, moved home 11/29/04
DD born - 12/7/04
In the process of recovery, taking it one day at a time...
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Suzet, I think that is normal for most people to do. There could even come a day when I don't come here anymore. You just never know. I'm glad you are in a good place for you.
Kloe, thank you so much. I miss posting with you. Try not to keep all those things in your head too long ~ many times they need to come out and be heard, read, looked at, and chosen or not chosen. I encourage you to keep the channels open, for your own healing. Take care of that CUTIE baby!
Spidey
But that's totally, FEATHER PLUCKIN', INSANE!!!
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