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Well I just called A-holes mother in St. Louis, and there was no surgery. I've been conned it seems.

A girlfriend and I are going to the island now, to "see" the truth.

What a f'ing thief!

Is it too late to undo the signing? I don't know. I will call a lawyer next week

I can't help it, I am a yooper and this is what I know - confrontation.

If there is a woman with him there on my island, there will be bloodshed. Not hers, but his.

Pray for for us all, please.

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Prayers going up! I'm so sorry, Weaver!


"Your actions are so loud that I can't hear a word you're saying!"

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My prayers are with the f'ing thief if you catch him!

Could you swing by UC Davis, there is a prof there that needs some of Weaver's "confrontation" on his Gregory Peck *ss? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />


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Oh weaver!

...need bullets?

-ol' 2long

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gotcha covered Weaver!


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weaver,
I don't do much praying myself... but I could try and fix you up with some concentrated orange juice and other ingredients to make a nice tub of napalm.


Someone throw me a map already!
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Weaver, my heavens. Tear 'em new ones.

Take refuge in something positive. Calm blue great lake.

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I just say napalm, napalm is always the answer.


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Weaver, I just checked out the island on Google Maps. Should it be blinking red? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

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Thinking of you weaver.Go give him a piece of my mind!

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Borrow someone's huge Rottweiller. They make even big men squeal like little girls.

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Oh, I'm so sorry, weaver!

I had no idea it was that bad.

You don't deserve this.

This is not a time to be "nice".

This also may not be a time to be confrontational. This guy is a real snake!

Be careful girl!

Why don't you call the police and see if there is something that can be done?
Get a lawyer to help you if the police can't find a crime in it.

Weaver, nothing my W has done to me was as bad as this.

I'm speechless.


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You had better report back to us pronto when you get home!

We're all going to be worried.


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((((weaver))))

I am so sorry girl.

My prayers are with you. You have been SOOOO used. This is evil.

I would say at this point that if it were me I would never want to see that island again, but I would want the money. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" />

How DARE he do this to you. A liar and a thief. And I don't call names lightly. I am not supposed to do that!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> This is awful. I wanted, as you did, so much to believe in the good that is in people, but right now I do NOT see much good going on here. This is wrong wrong WRONG.

And to think I came here thinking you should let this all go. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

No Surgery. LIES. And his own father at that <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />. How disgusting.

You are WORTHY <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />. Don't forget this. Prayers for you sweetheart.

that being said, please, weaver, do not return evil for evil. I know you are hurting, but step back, at some point and do what you need to do to protect your integrity. It's not all about the island property, it is about YOU moving forward and doing what is healthiest for you, DD and your future. It is what you will live with and have your integrity, your future.

Love in Christ,
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weaver,

I know you're hurting bad right now and VERY angry but BE CAREFUL!!

We're thinking about you!!

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You have my thoughts, weaver.


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What a lying piece of scum. Well, at least you will know now for sure that you are better off without him. I seriously hope there is something you can do to turn around the paperwork. I just can't believe this. tt

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Bless your heart Weaver...
I am so sorry that this is happening to you.
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Don't get yourself arrested.
Hit him where it hurts ... in his wallet.
Take legal action.
Breathe .....

He may have done you a sort of favor .... severed you from your lingering doubts that maybe he's "the one" ... now you know without a doubt.

Don't forget ... living well is the best revenge.

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Weaver,

Please check in so we know you're not in jail - or worse.

-AD


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