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Hi aussie2 Guess all the other Brits are out enjoying our one day of summer LOL. Stupid country - I had to take my winter coat out of the closet last week, and here we are today in 80 degree heat! Typical Brit, talking about the weather. My thoughts on OW today are: I am skinnier than her! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Alph.
Me, BS 37
Him, WXH (Noddy) 40
DD13, DD6
Married 14th August 1993
D/Day 2nd April 05
Noddy left us 3rd April 05, lives with OW (Omelette) 28
Divorce final 6th July '06.
Time wounds all heels... - Groucho Marx
...except when it doesn't. - Graycloud
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Just checking in here real quick before going to dinner with WH --- yes, he's asked me out for no particular reason, I think...
My thoughts on the OW today..."What was that stinky smell, we just drove by?"
Me BS 44
XH 45
M 20 years
D19
D12
DDay 11.29.04
Separated 12.29.04
Plan A 24.02.05
Plan B 10.9.05
Plan D 2.2.06
Divorce 13.6.06
OW - former friend and D12's x-godmother (Skunkypoo)
OWH - philander, XH's former best friend (still shares skunkypoo with XH)
Anger = drinking a rat poison and waiting/wishing the rat would notice you drink it and the rat die from it.
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Get that smell out of your nose so you can enjoy your meal with WH! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" /> Have a great time. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Alph.
Me, BS 37
Him, WXH (Noddy) 40
DD13, DD6
Married 14th August 1993
D/Day 2nd April 05
Noddy left us 3rd April 05, lives with OW (Omelette) 28
Divorce final 6th July '06.
Time wounds all heels... - Groucho Marx
...except when it doesn't. - Graycloud
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My thoughts on OW today are... I pity her, she has to live with secrets all her life (her H doesn't know about this A and the previous one) - and I'm free !
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May I join in? I'm in Germany, and this thread looks like fun <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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Hello yerpeens and fellow nightshifters ! Alphs right - I've been busy today. Gardening before it got too hot, then cooking a BBQ and playing with the kids. Had a full on row with Squid over some thoughtless [censored] and it felt GOOD ! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> And amazing for both of us, we;re not sulking now. A row of that proportion before her affair would have led to weeks of silence. Small silver lining to a large brown cloud I guess ! I'll check in later or tomorrow with you guys ! Enjoy your lives this weekend ! * Gosia Vilkommen ! OF course you;re welcome ! Where from in Germany ? I'm a brit but I work there a lot.
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Boy way to make me feel like a useless Yank Bob....LMAO <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
-Caren
Always Look For Grace Given, Even in the midst of Grace Denied.
BS-Me 39
WH-37
Together 15 years
Married 12 years
7 kids total, His: SD20, SS18, Twin SS's 16.
Mine: DD22, DD15
Ours: DD12
Affair began Fall 04, Separated Fall 04,2 Failed Plan B attempts, False recovery of sorts Spring 05.......Still pluggin' away.
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Gosia - please join us.
Welcome!
Alph.
Me, BS 37
Him, WXH (Noddy) 40
DD13, DD6
Married 14th August 1993
D/Day 2nd April 05
Noddy left us 3rd April 05, lives with OW (Omelette) 28
Divorce final 6th July '06.
Time wounds all heels... - Groucho Marx
...except when it doesn't. - Graycloud
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BTW I don;t want to 'down' the thread but my thoughts on OM today : " My kids love and respect me and I'll have a great fathers day, yours think you're low scum. "
Made me feel good till I remembered his one estranged son died last year. It will be hard for him tomorrow. I loathe the scumbag but even I can't take pleasure in the man grieving a child.
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My thoughts today on OW are that she's not worth thinking about. TT
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b0b,
He's not your problem any more. Have a great day tomorrow!
TT - what a great attitude!
Alph.
Me, BS 37
Him, WXH (Noddy) 40
DD13, DD6
Married 14th August 1993
D/Day 2nd April 05
Noddy left us 3rd April 05, lives with OW (Omelette) 28
Divorce final 6th July '06.
Time wounds all heels... - Groucho Marx
...except when it doesn't. - Graycloud
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Thanks Alphin, I really have never given her much time. All my hurt, anger, despair and disappointment have been pretty much directed at my WH. We live in Asia. It is a scenario that you laugh at when you arrive. The older Western guy with a LBFM on his arm (little brown f***ing machine). She is typical of so many women out here but he was meant to be special.TT
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My thoughts on OM tonight.....
.....who???????
Had a fantastic day....about to have a fab night.
Full of sun, beer and HOG (Harley and leather!) smells.
It was fantastic to be behind my husband on a bike again.....dredged up wonderful memories from over 10 years ago!
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Gosia,
Wie bOb gesagt hat: Wilkommen! Ich bin gerade suedlich von dir in oesterreich!
LG
Me BS 44
XH 45
M 20 years
D19
D12
DDay 11.29.04
Separated 12.29.04
Plan A 24.02.05
Plan B 10.9.05
Plan D 2.2.06
Divorce 13.6.06
OW - former friend and D12's x-godmother (Skunkypoo)
OWH - philander, XH's former best friend (still shares skunkypoo with XH)
Anger = drinking a rat poison and waiting/wishing the rat would notice you drink it and the rat die from it.
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I am an american that lives in South East England with my English husband. We actually met in Paris. He and I have never delt with an affair in our relationship.
My former partner cheated on me. I still find I visit MB to help out people from time to time. So like SOL I am an expat.
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Hello Yerpeen friends and expats ! I hope you all are having as wonderful a father Days Sunday as I am ! Lost...I work in Vienna ocasionally - 1 or 2 times per year ! I Always look forward to it. I seem to have adventures in Vienna for some reason ! Meeting unusual people in unsual places. Vienna is the HQ of our CEMA ( Central Europe, emerging markets) operation so I'll have to visit again soon. * Strong, glad you had a perfect day for motorcycling ! We spent the last few Christmases in the Florida Keys and I always envy the folks who trawl the overseas highway on a Harley. They#'re gtreat everywhere but even more 'right' in that dusty, American setting ! I boroowed our hosts' Harley v-rod to pick up supplies from our nearest publix - GORGEOUS looking thing, but abit civlised for a Harley IMO. Having said that I'd have one in a heartbeat <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> I rode into a skip at hugh speed some years ago and nearly died ( I lost an inch in height, gained pins in a few places and a permanent limp) and I can;t really justify owing a bike anymore. Before you laugh BTW, the skip was covered in a black tarpaulin with no lights nearby and it was a rainy night. I didn't even brake, just hit the skip. Still it got me the deposit for our first home from the court case ! * Hi I'm New Too ! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Great that you stop by to help folks out ! For me, It feels 'right' to try to pass on a little of the enormous hope I got from this place. Enjoy the lovely summers day today ! * all My Squid arranged to referee a karte competition today - fathers day - when she knows its a serious trigger for me. She loves her sport ( Karate) and this childrens tournament would have been cancelled if it was not for her volunteering last minute ( aparrently like I give a [censored] about ANYTHING TO DO with karate ! (Squid had her affair with the UK 'king' of karate)). I made my displeasure known VERY STRONGLY. Squids backed out as much as she can, doing only the morning sessions now, and she has booked a restaurant for us this evening for Fathers day. Huge progress for Squid, but still far to go. So I have this lovely day to play with my kids an laze in teh sun. Tough gig huh ? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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Even the Brits mock my regional accent - lets just say its not the most romantic of tones ! In the 'States folks think I'm Australian ! Bob - I DON’T THINK SO!!!!! LOL ROTFLMAO hehehehehe <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Bobs Aussie language test...what does the following mean Ambo Apples Bail Barney Berk Blue Cactus Captain Cook Cossie Dag Grundies Heave Servo Wombat <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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H 39 yrs
DS 2 yrs
DD 21 yrs
DS 20 yrs
M nearly 21 yrs
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* Strong, glad you had a perfect day for motorcycling ! We spent the last few Christmases in the Florida Keys and I always envy the folks who trawl the overseas highway on a Harley. They#'re gtreat everywhere but even more 'right' in that dusty, American setting ! I boroowed our hosts' Harley v-rod to pick up supplies from our nearest publix - GORGEOUS looking thing, but abit civlised for a Harley IMO. Having said that I'd have one in a heartbeat <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> V-Rods aren't quite grungy enough are they <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> After picking up the bikes yesterday I had to be on the cake stall at the school fete. Hubby and my father took the bikes to school to join a couple of others (a Fat Boy and an 1100 Jap bike) giving bike rides around the netball courts. They had a blast! The cakes melted <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> I rode into a skip at hugh speed some years ago and nearly died ( I lost an inch in height, gained pins in a few places and a permanent limp) and I can;t really justify owing a bike anymore. Before you laugh BTW, the skip was covered in a black tarpaulin with no lights nearby and it was a rainy night. I didn't even brake, just hit the skip. Still it got me the deposit for our first home from the court case ! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> horrendous story! I think I should only ride between the hours of 10 and 4 with no rain/ice/fog!!!! Hubby hasn't ridden in 10 years and his arms are feeling it today. He has apehanger handlebars which give the bike a slight chop feel....he's not used to that riding position! I hope tonights meal is a wonderful father's day treat for you Bob. I'm about to set up the water slide for the kids and make a brunch for hubby and I. Enjoy the wonderful weather everyone!
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Ambo - No idea ! Short foe 'Amber Nectar ?' LOL !
Apples - er...fruit ? We have a saying 'right as apples', does it mean 'OK' ?
Bail again here in the midlands it mean sto 'bugger off early' same for you ?
Barney - A Barney is a row here.
Berk - Pillock, idiot, nobhead here
Blue - Not a clue !!!!!
Cactus - Not a bleedin' clue !
Captain Cook Rhy,ing slang for 'fook' ? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
Cossie - here 'costume' as in 'swimming cossie'.
Dag - no idea !!
Grundies - Undercrackers ! Learned this from Squids cousin in the spring !
Heave - Puke ?
Servo - Nope. Crap at this aren;t I ? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
Wombat - idiot ? no idea !
I'll put up some midlands slang for you and see how you do !
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Strong me too ! About to set up the water slide for my kids too !
Have a lovely day !
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