ok, all... check in time.
Sorry I was gone so long. I've been implementing Plan A as best I can for a while now, and it's not working. She's continuing to draw away from me, emphasizing any flaw or mistake I make and telling me that I am unacceptable for them, and that she can never be close to me again.
She SAYS she's not physical with OM anymore (uh, right) She's shown a lot of behaviors recently that convince me otherwise. But as I've been told, Plan A is about the expectation of continued contact, and the likely deception surrounding that contact.
I'm having a bit of confusion, and I was wondering what you guys could suggest, but I'll post that in another thread because this one is getting long :-)
Anyway, BP thanks for your concern... how are YOU out there in GB?? Good lord, I work in the transit industry and it just freaks me out that someone would target public transportation like that.

But Plan A is NOT about ACCEPTANCE of continued contact. It's all about ENDING THE AFFAIR. That is the entire purpose of Plan A, doing everything in your power to hasten the end of the affair. If that does not work, then its time for Plan B.