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Lemonman is right. After being here for awhile, we can almost always spot the affair partner. It is usually someone from work, a good friend, neighbor, or someone from the gym or other sports activity.
Be sure to stop talking to your husband about relationship, or your suspicions. It will just make him hide things better.
See if you can find out whose number he is calling and where she lives - but not by asking him.
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Also, did you go online and see his charges when he was in New Orleans "thinking?" That made me LOL.......sorry but it did. No offense to the original poster, but doesn't just reading this clear up how incredibly transparent all of this is. Sour... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> sheeesh, that wasn't even a creative cover for an affair! lol <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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well my husband has left me. I caught him at his ow house on saturday. I confronted both- she says they have been involved for 3-4 weeks I know it was longer. He said he wanted to seperate not divorce. He wants to have time to think . He says he loves me like a best friend and he has feelings for her. He says he will continue taking care of the house, kids, etc. and he says that the problem is not her its that he fell out of love with me.
He says he has been like this for 2 years. First he said 4 months now its 2 years? He said he had been wanting to seperate before but he didnt want to hurt me.
I am at my wit's end. I am betrayed, hurt.
I stilllove him - but hated what he has done and what has happened.
She is 5-7 years older that he and I with a grown daughter and MARRIED_ but seperated also. !!!!!!
What do I do. I dont want my marraige over and will he be coming back to work on this or am I just pathetic . ?
hes 42 - im 41.
What do I do- do I just divorce or find someone for me?
Is there hope or false hope?
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