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Thanks. I know not to do anything now.And I wouldn't be here everyday unless I had some hope and desperately wanted to save my marriage.. I am just tired right now. I just have to vent to get it out, you know.
I just can't help but think that the risk will outweigh the reward in all of this.I know there is no guarantees in life. However there is risk and not every risk is worth taking. So I am divorced, not dead.I can have a house, child and all the stuff that goes with marriage and still be happy and single.I just beleive that right now.
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The guy has a live in girlfriend and sneaks my wife around to hotels. He may be lying to her, ya think.
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I am not wallowing. I am venting to keep my sanity in all of this. We are already seperated so it's too late anyway.If she wants to go be with om I hope it happens soon so I can move on. I have already gave her an ultimatum to think for a couple of weeks and F***ing decide already.Plan A-Work on our marriage,Plan B go see where the relationship with loser om leads. You may think this is the wrong approach but I am through with this Plan A plan B head Game. I need to be able to move the hell on and rebuild my life you know. I can do better, period.And I don't see divorce as doom. It's the freedom to find happiness inside myself without trying to help fix some other person at the expense of my health.
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kdh, please consider my words: your anger is temporary, divorce is permanent.
I know you are furious, my friend, we have been there and fully sympathize with you. You will have lots of support here no matter what you decide.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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