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>I think he just wants me to want him.
DING! DING! DING! DING! Give the lady with the nice Bahama-mama tan a stuffed poodle! That lady's a winner!
I do hope you toasted us frying here in the states at least once on your cruise!
- Kimmy
I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. My Story Recovered!
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eav1967....so it sounds like you're still hoping to save your marriage. Good for you. I honestly hope you can. I don't know what I could tell you that would help. I tried hard to save mine but he didn't want it so I was thrown to the side without a care in the world....very cruely done~ I'm here if you justy want to talk...you can email me also. CarolinaChic1970@aol.comDealan-de.....yeah...I won a poodle.. Yippie! lol.. Of course I toasted to all of you!!! :-)
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Dear son 9
Married...15 years (Jan. 20, 1990)
D-Day July 20, 2004.
Divorcing!
What goes around comes around
Sometimes we have to hold our head high, blink back the tears and say GOOD-BYE
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>Dealan-de.....yeah...I won a poodle.. Yippie! lol..
I've got a pit and a ton of lighter fluid.
I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. My Story Recovered!
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LOL!!!!! I'll be there ASAP. :-)
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STBX 39
Dear son 9
Married...15 years (Jan. 20, 1990)
D-Day July 20, 2004.
Divorcing!
What goes around comes around
Sometimes we have to hold our head high, blink back the tears and say GOOD-BYE
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Hi TR,
My then-H continued to tell me he loved me during cancer treatments, but at the same time told me I was an inconvenience and to have someone else help me with my cancer.
Then he left and filed for divorce, on my birthday, had me served Christmas eve day, even after I and friends urged him to wait until after the holidays considering my health status.
During this entire time-frame he continued to tell me he loved me and missed me.
I can't explain away why someone would continue to proclaim love for you while simultaneously trying to destroy you. To me the FOG must include a level of psychosis.
Please ignore his words, and pay strict attention only to his actions hon.
Love,
Jo
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