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Hi Whisper... We've been kinda wrapped up in ourselves a bit... I did make a list!! I posted a short list on things I love about Hopeful... but the original is MUCH bigger. It was funny how the bad things abot the OM grew and grew. As it grew I could feel my anger grow also. mmmm Seems this WD's things is actually taking place. I don't think they are too bad right now. I think I did a lot of hard work a few weeks ago at the very beginning. Hopeful is still angry at times and it gets the best of him... but I understand, he needs to get it out. All I can do is support him, show him love, affection and appreciation. He's thinking of getting a punching bag for the basement... I think it's a good idea.
Take care... Undo
Wish I could "Undo" what "he" did...
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As they say ... take it one day at a time. We still have our ups 'n downs too - everyone does.
Sounds like you're going through the grieving process more than just feeling WD symptoms. That's good. The quicker you grieve, the quicker you'll get past this and move on. I'm still at the tail end of mine. I can't WAIT until I finally get to acceptance!! They never said it was easy, did they? Grrr.
Hang in there. We'll both get through this together.
Whisper
FWW (me) 32 / BH 33
M - 12 yrs / 0 kids
EA/PA lasted 1.5 yrs
NC - 5/25/05 ... in recovery ever since!!!
"If you love something, set it free ..."
(Just glad I was smart enough to come back!)
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