Jail can be avoided if the OM hits first and the incident happens in a place you just happened to see him. No stalking please.

That's my plan anyway.

Each and every time I have seen the guy my XW had an EA with 4 years ago that went PA after our divorce I have pounded the crap out of him (2x)....this guy presented himself as a friend to my family for years and was "there for her" through "her divorce"...long after I demanded a halt to their "friendship" years before. I had a problem then and his actions when she was vulnerable will always anger the ****** out of me...He's lucky I don't see him more often...

I don't plan on hunting anyone down or stalking anyone ... but I don't think that I will have enough self control if i ever see OM.

You guys crack me up w/ the bone snapping stuff. Funny.

Not sure what is so funny. This culture pounds down the essence of manhood, forcing us to avoid conflict. Ironically, during my M troubles over the last few months, I had a huge confrontation with a coach from another baseball team. He cursed me up and down and challenged me to fight. I did the "mature" thing and held my tongue and walked away. Then, my local baseball board failed to support me on it. I got totally hosed.
I have always done the "responsible" thing and walked away. Now I am not saying I would fight in front of kids at a baseball game, but I will be much more open to picking my spots from now on. Truly, I hope I see OM in a good spot one day.


My W, and most women, don't understand being a man. You can talk all you want, but when push comes to shove it is brute strength and aggression.


Of course now this post will feed in to the "abuser" sign that was hung on me on the emotional needs board. And why should I care, exactly?????

Hey tired dad


I understand about warf pushing back his klingon side...

We all have had these types of thoughts. It's what we do w/ those thoughts that define what kind of Man we are.

Would anyone screw my wife knowing that a gang of men would pound the ****** of of him and be able to do so w/ out retribution. Probably not.

But, this culture will not bury someone up to their head and have the whole village stone them.

So look into yourself. Dont think that your the only one who is still a man. Maybe one day that man will find himself in a wrong spot. But, it shouldnt be at your hands.

and I still think the sound of the OM's bones breaking is funny. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

"But, this culture will not bury someone up to their head and have the whole village stone them."

Hmmm... I like that idea. Anyone know where I can get some fire ants? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />

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I love my WS ... I would never do anything to hurt her. My thoughts are NOT directed towards her, they are directed towards the OM who knowingly took advantage of my WS when she was in a vulnerable state ... as part of my 'role' as a husband, is it not my responsability to create a safe enviroment for my wife? and doing that ma require the removal of anything that could hurt her ... like spiders that will bite her while she sleeps, like a snake that would bite her if she stepped on it without knowing ... like the OM who would prey on a vulnerable person.

All together now...

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thanks. i think i am being too sensitive again.

Please understand that the above was / is my hurt and anger speaking. I am not a violent man.


Sorry for the harsh words in, it was out of character for me.

Hmm.

I remian in two mind about the 'it make you as bad as them' attitude to damaging OM.

God says forgive, but he also physically threw the moneylenders out of the temple.

My upbringing and culture dictates that OM f'ked my woman and so his @ss is grass and I am the mower.

until eithe rhe or I die I have permission to offer him wahatever damage i so choose.

I will be honest - my final communication with OM was a well researched threat. He contacts anyone in my family ever again and firstly I exposse his nefarious sidelines to all authorities and secondly he will not be able to get inhis car without a thorough check, drink a coke wihout testing or walk alone at night for the rest of his life without looking over his shoulder.

He replied saying he understood. My research was very detailed.

So in truth one reason I don't kick the ******* **** out of OM is that its fun him fearing that I will.

And TD, yes I am an unreconstructed hunter gatherer. I am a Man with a capital M.

And i will not apologise for such.