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Hi all,
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Why attend a funeral?
This was my question too.''
LittleBob's W wanted to visit the GRAVE SITE. The funeral happened 5 months ago.
LB I would say..W, I request that out of any feelings you may have for me, please do not visit the grave site. And if you must, do not ever tell me you did.
Even though this is the best NC available to any BS.. visiting the grave site is a form of breaking NC!! She is making contact one more time!! Which shows feelings still for the OM. Is she still in withdrawal??
It is unacceptable.
k
CORDUROY PILLOWS ARE MAKING HEADLINES!!
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Krusht, I was responding more to Low's post than the original one - but yes, grave site is just as disrespectful and definitely means that it sure ain't over.
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Last edited by _AD_; 08/23/05 10:20 PM.
A guy, 50. Divorced in 2005.
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How did you just find out that OM died 5 months ago?
Call me cynical, but that seems strange to me.
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Oh how easy it is to drift into old thought patterns...
Thanks for all of your feedback. I went back and ruminated on all you had to say and could only conclude that you are, of course, correct. I fear I was engaging in a bit of emotional reasoning.
A former affair partner has no business at the funeral or grave. It would be disrespectful to everyone involved.
I said my goodbyes to the OW long ago. There's no further need to say more.
Thanks for the reality check.
Low
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FWW and OM went to highschool together. Her friends told her about it not knowing about the A.
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