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“””I am afraid that I'm going to tell him, then we're going to work it out, and I'm still not going to be happy - and by then my OM will be gone and I will have missed out on true happiness with the man I am supposed to be with.”””
Can you show me anywhere in that Catholic bible of yours where it says that while you’re married, God will bring some new dude into your life, whom your not only suppose to be with but who will also make you happy….. I’ll wait……
Found that scripture yet?
Found it yet?
Huh…. You can’t find it. Well if this is a good thing from God then there must be a scripture somewhere that talks about this wonderful gift. Or maybe He’s keeping it a secret from us or else everyone will want one.
Ok, funnies aside…. So if affairs aren’t good and aren’t a gift from God then what are they?
Uhhh Uhhh Uhhh I know let me answer, OK, LostHusband what are they?
Affairs are bad….. Affairs are selfish and against all of the Lords teachings and and and God says in His teaching what is bad will produce more bad and and and what is good will produce more good.
((Athe)) I’m sorry, I’m just playing in kind of a joking mood this afternoon. I’m not gonna get all religious on ya here, but you did profess some belief earlier. Have you ever heard of the Ten Commandments? Nearest I can figure current actions are breaking atleast 5 of them and you may be able to throw a 6th on in there….. Does any of that sound good? Does it sound like any good can come of a relationship that so goes against God?
The obvious answer is no. I hope that you’ve taken some time to read through the concepts on this site and will dive into that book when it arrives. I’m actually anxious to hear your words 2 weeks from now when some of the fog has lept from your head.
Athe, from some of your words I truly do believe that you are a good person who is just making some horrible decisions right now. Pride will keep you in a bad place. Humility and honesty will free you.
Hugz, Thoughtz, & Prayerz
Bill
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It was nice getting to talk to you on AIM the other night. If you ever feel like you want to talk with someone one-on-one again, I am here.
Me, the WS, 25
My H, the BS, 25
Married Sept 2003
Served with D papers Aug 2005, but still hoping to make it work
History, despite its wrenching pain, cannot be unlived, but if faced with courage, need not be lived again.
--Maya Angelou
Proud of the woman that I have become, not the events that made me become that woman.
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Hi cinnymd -
I tried to im you yesterday - i don't know if my aim is acting up yours - i'm going to make a late dinner right now, and then i'll try again to get online if you are around!!
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I'm not sure what time zone you are in, but keep in mind that I am on the east coast.
I'll be on sometime after church today!
Me, the WS, 25
My H, the BS, 25
Married Sept 2003
Served with D papers Aug 2005, but still hoping to make it work
History, despite its wrenching pain, cannot be unlived, but if faced with courage, need not be lived again.
--Maya Angelou
Proud of the woman that I have become, not the events that made me become that woman.
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Got the book this morning. Maybe that will help...
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