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He's been ****** lying all this time. I just found the evidence for ****** A phones sent to his brothers address with OW baby mama. Oh ****** what do I do???

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Oh my gosh, ff. I am so sorry. so sorry. Does he know you know?


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crap. I am so sorry you are in a bad place right now ff. I hope you are able to calm down soon, although that will not make this end any sooner... I just am sorry for your pain. If you need to talk, I know froz would post to you.

please take care of yourself.

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You are not an idiot.

Your husband is the idiot.

(((((((hugs)))))))

No advice here,just prayers hun.


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I don't understand .... too many *****

WHAT did you find?

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yes, he knows I know. I hate him.


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I LB'd all over the place. It just does not matter any more. He is a ****** liar. I hate him and I hate me. I want to die.


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FF - ???? Hugs to you, and run that by me again, please.

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He finally screwd up and left his truck unlocked. I found a money order for a cell bill. So I looked further and found proof of two phones going to his brothers address.


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B, do you still have my #?


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No - but you can call me - . My WH did the same thing - I didn't even know about the phone for a whole year. What a dummy.

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ok edit it out


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It's amazing how these guys think - he is mad that you are checking up on him, and doesn't think you should be. Well, now its pretty obvious that you SHOULD be.

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You know what 'deep throat' said regarding the Watergate break-in doncha?

"follow the money"

good advice

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sorry Pep I was cursing which is out of character for me.


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I myself curse like an effin sailor oops!

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ROFL


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So what is your next plan? I think I would need to see paternity test for sure. This could be a financial drain for years, and you have a right to know if the child is his or not.

And aside from that, unless you want to continue living like you are, I would establish some boundaries pretty darn quickly.

For sure, I would let him know he needs to pick his stuff out of the yard, and find somewhere else to live.

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Sorry, Pep, I'm reliving fond memories.

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FF ... PLEASE change the title of this thread .... it's just ~wrong~

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