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crazyfool,
think long and hard about your exposure list. Do some research on OW. Who could have a vested interest in busting the affair. Who can make it uncomfortable and embarassing? Who does your WH most admire?
I also just exposed to our families and close friends at first. I waited to long for the most important and most effective exposure of all ... WH and Skunkypoo's top boss. I had an appoinmtment with him yesterday, he spent an entire hour with me and he was incredible. He is not thrilled about the A at all and plans to transfer Skunkypoo and have a long talk with WH about integrity. WH will be sooo embarassed and angry. WS anger about exposure blows over quick though in my experience.
Me BS 44
XH 45
M 20 years
D19
D12
DDay 11.29.04
Separated 12.29.04
Plan A 24.02.05
Plan B 10.9.05
Plan D 2.2.06
Divorce 13.6.06
OW - former friend and D12's x-godmother (Skunkypoo)
OWH - philander, XH's former best friend (still shares skunkypoo with XH)
Anger = drinking a rat poison and waiting/wishing the rat would notice you drink it and the rat die from it.
Redhat
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Plua, just because the OWH's acted as if he does not care, does not mean that the exposure was not effective.
I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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