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I got it because he finally was away from the tart long enough to see her for the person (or facsimile thereof) that she really is. Then, he saw the damage it did not only to me, but to the children. Then contrition set in.

I even got, "I love you so much for loving the kids," (there are OC) and, "and for loving me....I'm so sorry," last night. I get it a lot now.

There are a lot of verbal comparisons to her character (or lack thereof) and mine. He's realizing now how much he'd have lost and how very little he would have gotten back if he'd stayed with her.

- Kimmy


I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?

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Kimmy-

Why did it take him so long and can you tell me what R has looked like for you? I do not know what is "normal". I think if I knew better what to expect, I would not be feeling so scared and unsure.

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