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Thanks Lady. You seem much better now, You had me worried with some of your previous posts. You seemed to be at the point where emotions took control... Which, is o.k., it makes us human. At the same time, can cloud our judgement. You have little reason to trust him, but I'm glad he's showing signs he wants to work with you. This is awesome!

I will check out the general board and see what's happening over there. One of my best friends, which is not a counselor by any means, says that if I'm going to be miserable the rest of my life, that I gotta do what's right for me. Which, if I do come to that realization I owe it to GOd and myself to do what's right for me. However, to give up now, would be cutting short on everything. As tough as the future may be, I'm going to do what I can to make this work, and if it doesn't for some reason, then I know I did everything I could and didn't give up right away.


I hope you can hold out too and come to a point where you know, no matter what, you've made the right decision. That's the hardest part when making these decisions... What decision is right, is there a right decision, Time is so precious to waste it seems sacraligious. But, to not see what happens, would be worse.

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You are right the emotions were making me crazy, God knew I couldn't go on like that. It feels so wonderful to have a peaceful mind again!! H is trying to earn the trust back, and many changes are happening. Everything is not perfect, but I am happy to see progress.

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I posted on the general Questions 2. forum. I got one response saying I need to meet her EN. Which I've asked her if I am and she assures me I am meeting all of her ENs.. That's what I'm finding is strange in this society. What if there is a Sexual Dysfunction within the woman? No in is even willing to admit that's a possibility. How can one get help if this is something our society doesn't even look at.... I'm truely amazed at this. I will post this there to see if anyone else says anything in the coming week. But I find it truely amazing that no one is willing to say that there could be something physically wrong. But, with men, there's all kinds of information on dysfunction. Why is this?

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Do you really think that? Do you think she just doesn't have the capability to feel sexually at all? If that is so, I find that shocking too, but I hope you find some answers to this problem. Some women can only feel pleased one certain way, and that has to be your W to tell you and show you how. Now thats all I am going to say <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />

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I do to a degree.. After 5 years, and asking her several times throughout that time, she doesn't even know what would make it better for herself.

I don't understand it personally, but what if there is something physically wrong, and no one will look at that?

I don't know what to think. Our MC is this evening. I'm not sure what we will accomplish, but maybe we'll find things out we didn't know before.

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