Dani,

Lemonman has a point.

If it helps you at all, OW really WANTS you to think about her. She wants you to be gnashing your teeth over her. She wants you to be wondering what she has that you don't have. She wants you to be insanely jealous. It makes her more real.

It's not enough to pretend you don't. Whenever you think of her, whether she knows it or not, she's "winning."

Help her lose.


"Virtue -- even attempted virtue -- brings light; indulgence brings fog." -- C.S. Lewis