Pep, you are the first person who I have heard use this phrase - besides myself. Now, I am no how, no way, comparing my dealing with problems as to how you do things, think, etc. but.. I have always done this.

I drop situations down to the lowest demoninator !!! Always. How I would describe, what I do - is to go to the basic, most basic feeling. I guess it is really hard to describe it to someone who is not familiar with what you are talking about. But -- I do understand what you mean. Really I do !!!

Sorry to try to compare myself to you in any little tiny way. But, I think I am with you on this.

I have been described by "professionals" as a very logical thinker. Does that make sense to you ?? Not describing my actions with my WH, all bets seem to be off when dealing with these A s.

Not trying to offend anyone here. Hope I have made myself clear, probably as mud.

Carnation