Hi JG,
I followed you here from your response to Milkshake's
Yes, you do seem to have a good grasp of what is going on.

However, I also am concerned for you and the baby. Loosing weight during pregnancy isn't healthy. Please get some ensure or something like it.

I understand what you are saying about taking the high road, BUT I agree with Travelin & Avondale, You do need to expose the A to OWH and your H's family. It is very likely that many other people know about the A. You just don't know that they know. In my case one of my H's friends wife told me.

It is very possible since you live in a small town that this is affecting your business. No one that knew would talk about the A to me until I brought it up.

If you don't choose to expose to the media at first, I understand. But don't be suprised if it does happen. They have a way of finding these things out.

Please read "Love must be Tough" by DR. James Dobson.
I really think it will apply to your situation.

You are also in my prayers,
with love,
VTY

Exposing to OWH is difficult as I don't have an email address. I want to go to the media and wish someone else would do it on my behalf so that I can truly say it wasn't me. They are doing their best to get to people in town before I do. Everyone knows but thinks it's none of their business. Thanks for all the support!