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drpeppertx, trust me, it won't be a waste of money.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Glad you explained that. A call to the Harley's is expensive - almost $300. But it would be well-worth the money for your family's sake.
I still sense that your wife is reeling from the shock and despair of all of this. Maybe she is done, but I think she needs to do some more counseling, preferably with the Harleys.
Truthfully, it took me months (almost a year) to get over the terrible hurt, and I threw my WH out on D-day.
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$300? I thought it was $185 a session? When did it go up?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Well darn, Melody, wish I'd known that. Maybe I could have saved about $200,000. on the divorce and property settlement. Sheesh, why didn't you tell me?
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He was miserable at his job and resented my success. Brokenlove this is what I hear here....Jealousy. It will kill any relationship. Men are the competitive type, only being competitive with a wife/spouse doesn't work. (Who has the best job? Who brings home the most money? Who does the most work?) Boasting & Bragging about ones accomplishment to make another feel lower is destructive. Making the wife feel low because she has made a great accomplishment is also destructive. It's not a loving thing to do. I have seen marriages break up for this reason alone. Compeitiveness (whos the best, and does the most) never works in a marriage. Being jealous of anothers accomplishments doesn't work in a marriage. There is much more here other than "no SF." Love, Lady
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Well darn, Melody, wish I'd known that. Maybe I could have saved about $200,000. on the divorce and property settlement. Sheesh, why didn't you tell me? sorry, but it never occurred to me you didn't know!
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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