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Hey Orchid - I might just email him or her that line...hehe. but my ex told me a few months back that he was not having an affair because he told me about it and wasn't doing it without my knowledge (even though it WAS without my approval) WHATEVER!!
Take care,
~Jamie~
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Me (40)
WH (39)
Married May 4,1991
4 kids S(18)D(17)D(13)S(11)
He left March 14,2005
Informed about MOW (co-worker) March 23,2005
I filed for D in June 2005
Divorce final - Sept.28,2005
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Peace is not the absence of conflict: It's that state we can deal with conflict effectively, efficiently and respectfully.
~Randolf Lowry~
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one of the worst wedding vows I ever heard ...
"Their love was so true and was so strong ... they felt compelled to leave their marriages in order to form this bond." WOWZA, I can't imagine <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> Did the marriage last BTW?
Me-41 BS (FWS) DH-41 WS (FBS) 2DD's- 10 and 12 Married 15 years Separated for 2 years after my A Reconciled for 1 year before his A D-day for his A 8/23/05 WH moved out 9/16/05 Divorce final 1/23/07 Affair ended or month or so later My Story
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Just peachy you might want to reconsider the ow wearing white. In the chinese culture a bride that has been faithful has to wear red where as if the bride has been unfaithful before the marriage she has to wear white(kind of a way to humilate her). I kind of find it ironic that in the western cultures our brides where white and the rate of inidelity amongst women is at least 50%.
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It's morning (and raining..blah) and I'm just sitting here waiting for my kids to get home. They went to the ex's and OW house last night. DD13 told me when she left that she didn't want to spend the night and was going to have ex bring her home. Well - that wasn't the case, I called him at 10pm last night to see when he was going to bring the kids home and he told me that they were all having fun and the kids were going to be spending the night there.
He then proceeded to tell me that he was working this morning and that OW's son (13) wants to hang with our son (11) and that our son could stay at OW's house for the day. I said "I DON'T THINK SO!!" - He then suggested to have OW's son come to my house for the day. I can deal with that...I just thought it was a strange request, If I had been involved in an affair with a MM I wouldn't want my kids going to her house.....geesh!! They are a tad messed up, yes?
So we'll see what transpires with that today, all's I know is that my son IS NOT going to hang at OW's house if my ex is at work.
Other then that... all is well here. I do miss my angels when their gone with ex.
Take care,
~Jamie~
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Me (40)
WH (39)
Married May 4,1991
4 kids S(18)D(17)D(13)S(11)
He left March 14,2005
Informed about MOW (co-worker) March 23,2005
I filed for D in June 2005
Divorce final - Sept.28,2005
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Peace is not the absence of conflict: It's that state we can deal with conflict effectively, efficiently and respectfully.
~Randolf Lowry~
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