Oh and did you note in the cut and past section that the OW called the WH an OM? See how twisted? I still am soooo mad about them laughing about how they force their ultimatums..

Here is what they do apparently:

They write the letter saying they are upset at being fed scraps by a WH. Basically a plan B. They go into withdrawals...and they force the decision from the WH by going dark. but they won't do this unless the WH promises them that indeed they will soon be together...or he waffles on a time line in leaving home..his real home that is.

So that's their modus operandii...apparently.

But the underlying scenario I see...THESE WOMEN ARE MISERABLE!!! COMPLETELY..THEY'RE USED AND THEY KNOW IT!!!AND THEY ARE UNABLE TO SEE THAT THEY ARE DESTRUCTIVE.

It really is reframing reality. They do believe we are all 400 lbs overweight and walking around our homes asexual..plant-like...and wearing mu mu's and eating bonbons.

REALEASE YOUR INNER DIVA OR BH KING! FIGHT BACK! USE YOUR BRAINS AND YOU CAN DO IT...If they are capable of even thinking a little...

then...

THINK WHAT WE CAN DO WITH LOVE, POWER AND TRUTH AND THE LAW ON OUR SIDE!

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justpeachy
I tell you I was appoled...

I have been reading here so long and seeing the pain that BS go through...and now to witness the intitelement that these OW have just sickened me!

To think they come to that webside and want to justify their action WHILE still in the A.

I read several threads and they are supporting each other in such an imoral action....the idea that they have a place to go to to 'get approval' is discusting...


Daisy

Ok Peach, now calm down. U know this stuff is routine for them. After all this MB stuff isn't of their creation.

We all know the A land is a facade at best. Mimicking reality. So it is natural in the land of the alienship to use M type words, sayings, acronymns and even a few of our reverse babble and other techniques in their A world. They have tried it before but you know what?!?!?! It doesn't last. At best, they make fools out of themselves. Heck most of them can't keep their pants on much less their brains. LOL!!! The slobber oozing out of their mouths in the form of MB talk is pure babble.

Now we here know how to handle babble right?!?!? So don't fret, expect them to try and use MB tactics. It will back fire right up their arses.

Yea, I know they read here. Let them. Got nothing to hide. In fact, acknowledging their presence pizzes them off big time. Nothing like exposure.

In time some are foolish enough to try and defend their status and post here. They never last. Been here too long to see that.

The OPs are a dying breed.... they are just replaced by more stupid aliens. The mothership never makes a better model, keeps using the same dumb mold, which BTW is getting quite moldy. LOL!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

So what t/d? Best to expose and spit 'em out. They have no endurance. They will hate our exposure of their tactics.

For the newer ones here, let it be known, this isn't new. MBers along with the mods know what t/d when the 'trolls' arrive.

Expect them to come. They can't resist showing their faces. Some have even come under the disguise of being a WS in recovery. They go back to their TOW board and attempt to brag at some sort of 'accomplishment'. In reality it is a foolish attempt but they are too foggy to see the dirt on their faces. Then again, look at how smug some are and when they think they are in the know. LOL!!! All they know is they are selfish and they only think they are getting away with whatever but they are not.

Ok, feel better now? I am fairly good at riling the TOW community up with my posts. LOL!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> Can do it right from here. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> LB from afar.....let's the TOWers try that tactic. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

L.

"He's mad that trusts in the tameness of a wolf, a horse's health, a boy's love, or a ******'s oath."
William Shakespeare quotes

this is a quote from that site

eav...
Scarry I know....but one thing that I read there gave me hope for all BS...let me get to it!

It seems that these OP really do think they are in an R and they want what an R has! So eventually there will be the arguments over where to go for dinner or why are you not calling me (apperantly they expect a call every 24 hours! - my H does not even call that often and I don't expect it)...so LBing all over the place will happen! Just like MB principles say... as much as the OP want the WS all to themselves b/c the A is so exciting, once they get what they want - they will LB because they will be forced to meet all the EN! I read on there OW complaining of not getting enough calls and the support was to demand more calls (sounds like LB!)....

Daisy

I can understand why you might go slummin over to gloryb and see what's up but really,they will always be around looking for new tactics to destroy marriages and families and they are not worth one nanosecond of my time or anyone elses.

If and when they ever get some self respect and stop preying on married men/women as their goal then they may have a chance at a decent life.But we know that will never happen.You have to be a certain type of person to be on the receiving end of adultery and for that,I don't see any hope of dignity or respect.Ever.

They may steal our MB principles and try to apply them to their own warped and sordid lives but in the long run,they will never "win" anything but a liar and cheater and a life of uncertainty.If our WS's want to be with those types of horrible people despite what we try to save then I say "Go where you must but it won't be with me".

O

I like your last line O!

I just think we should start doing what they hate the most...

I posted to Hurting in Ok and said this about exposure...after reading what I saw...I think exposure is like this...

I liken it to a vampire being forced into the light...or stuck w/stake, shot by silver bullet...or whatever...! If I am the BS, I'd exposure using all of the above or whatever it takes! And I did.

THose that prey on the families out here are like vampires...out for no gain but their own.

I think these people are imho...really endorphin addicts outta control. That's just my .02 on that. I have somewhat of a theory about that too...but too long. I think I posted my endorphin theory to somebody yesterday?

But it's good to KNOW WHAT THEY HATE...again, they Hate exposure!!!alot!!!

Some talk about enduring with their WH a D Day! I guess it's a d day in reverse or something...Then LET'S BLOW D DAY RIGHT UP AT EM TOO! EXPOSURE AND MAKE EM SWEAT ON D DAY! Make the WS fly into full blown panic mode and make the OW/OP craaazy! Exposure doesn't affect us...No way. It doesn't do anything at all to a BS. well we have to hear the groaning of a WS for a few days..and a few stupid threats...But hey! What's gonna happen in the long run? Who has more time vested? The Spouse or the OP? Who holds the keys to legitimacy and dignity and public approval? WE do! Who's side is (well still most) society supportive of? Our side!

I say let's just keep perfecting perfection here!