Hi, Ashley. I'm glad you're doing okay. It really does get better as time goes on, and the less contact you have.

Well, I wrote that letter before I found out the truth about the cheating history in STBXWH's family. I explained the truth of the matter (WH not being divorced for a year, as he told them, his refusal to pay child support, and how much my family meant to me). I included copies of legal documents proving his refusal to pay support and the date I filed for divorce.

I don't want him back now, but I can't say I'm sorry I caused some trouble for the two 'lovebirds.' <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> I don't want to tell you what to do, but I'd recommend writing that letter. It will help you heal, no matter what happens with your marriage.

Be sure to watch this one WITH your DD. My DD and I watched it on an airplane and it was awesome.

Hi Ashley!

Hey Pebbles, thanks for your reply. I am not sure if OW's parents know English but I am going to post a short and succinct letter tomorrow anyhow. There's no harm in doing it compared to not doing in. And I'll feel better after doing it (regardless what the outcome will be) LOL

I'm not surprised if WH comes back to me in a hissy fit if he finds out what I did. But am I scared? Noooo.

I kinda "bumped" into him yesterday. I was near my insurance agency where is office is also located. I had a strong feeling he might be around as it was lunchtime. I saw him stroll on the other side of the courtyard and I avoided him completely. He looked thinner. Curiously, OW wasn't with him but I think she cld be overseas leading a tour group. Whatever it is, I didn't feel as much pain looking at his face again. It was beginning to feel like a "huh, whatever". Good sign or bad sign for me? I don't know *shrug*

Hi faithful.

~A