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Thanks, realtor*.

You may well be right about the passports, Orchid. Though I can't imagine anyone, not even an alien, wanting to pretend that the photo of the Omelette was really them. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" />

Miaow.

Alph.


Me, BS 37 Him, WXH (Noddy) 40 DD13, DD6 Married 14th August 1993 D/Day 2nd April 05 Noddy left us 3rd April 05, lives with OW (Omelette) 28 Divorce final 6th July '06. Time wounds all heels... - Groucho Marx ...except when it doesn't. - Graycloud
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Alphin, do you feel like you don't love him anymore? Is there someone else in your life now? Did the dodgy neighbour stop bothering you? Hope all goes well for you on Monday. Financial security counts for so much when you have little children to care for. How do these WS's become so irresponsible? It's so awful to deal with. Lucky for you that single mothers get well looked after in England. How's the writing coming along?

And when you've answered these 20 questions, I'll think up some more!!!

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Hi, TT.

I do care about him, but only as the father of my children.

There's no-one else in my life. It's going to be a very long time before I trust anyone again.

Dodgy neighbour is still bothering me, but thanks to the inclement weather I've stopped hanging the laundry outside until Spring, so our back yard meetings are few and far between. He only catches me now when I'm taking the rubbish out, so I do it as quietly as possible.

The writing is coming along quite well, thank you. I'm not working on anything in particular, just bits and pieces. Can't imagine that any of it will come together into anything worth while, but you never know. I'm so determined not to write about the break up of my marriage, and the agony of betrayal... but it keeps on sneaking in there. Guess I need to purge it.

Single mums do get a good deal here, I'm very grateful for it. I am going to have to look for a real job though. I'll start looking seriously after Christmas, as we are spending quite a lot of time with MIL over the holiday season and I don't want anything as mundane as employment cramping my style! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

Thanks for asking. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Alph.


Me, BS 37 Him, WXH (Noddy) 40 DD13, DD6 Married 14th August 1993 D/Day 2nd April 05 Noddy left us 3rd April 05, lives with OW (Omelette) 28 Divorce final 6th July '06. Time wounds all heels... - Groucho Marx ...except when it doesn't. - Graycloud
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Hey girl!!

I'll be thinking of you tomorrow. The decision to file is not an easy one, for sure. Your doing great though.

(((Alphin)))

Take care,

~Jamie~


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Me (40)
WH (39)
Married May 4,1991
4 kids S(18)D(17)D(13)S(11)
He left March 14,2005
Informed about MOW (co-worker) March 23,2005
I filed for D in June 2005
Divorce final - Sept.28,2005
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Nice to hear from you, Alph.

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Alph,

Too funny. I have always believed, and still do, that bad things eventually do happen to people to indifferently hurt other people. Sometimes, it takes a long time, but about the time they think they got away with their behavior. WHAM!!!!

You really have to be feeling smug right now.


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He is the FWH
D-Day: 12/02/03

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