Caren,

I really liked mojodiva's Plan B letter.

I'm very sorry your H has yet to see the light. It baffles me that he seems to continue to take and take, and it makes me unbelievably angry that he would be so disrespectful to suggest that you start saving your money. I could go on, but I won't.

I am excited about what the future holds for you. I have always thought you to be amazingly strong, bright, caring, and funny. I hope that you don't attach your self-worth to your H's opinion or his mistakes.

I hope this Plan B gives you peace of mind.

Is there anyone at all who you could get to to help you with the bunk bed?

I'm not sure, I have had a lot of offers to help me move, but I'd like to keep it to as few people as possible when moving my things from the house. I don't have much there...and most of it I can get on my own, the only things I need help with are the bunk bed and my washer and dryer (Which I hope fits through a standard doorway, because they are in the garage, and his car is parked in there...so the only other way out is through the garage door).

Most of the people who have offered to help don't have trucks...lol, but that's okay, if worst comes to worst I'll rent a U-Haul.

I appreciate the vote of confidence froz <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> And I don't attach my self worth to what he thinks anymore, I know I'm a good person....he just hasn't figured it out yet...Oh, but he will.....it might not be today...it might not be tommorrow...but it'll be soon and by then it may be too late.

God Bless,

-Caren