I have been trying to avoid posting on your thread because the situations in your sitch never change. You keep going through the same thing over and over again.
You heard her talking about OM, saying that
they were going out and that they didn’t need permission from [you] or his girlfriend.
and yet you are ready to believe her lie that she was not talking about him. One thing is clear: your WW has no respect for you. If she thinks she can pass that off to you and have you believe that bull crap, she has not respect whatsoever for your judgment. And regrettably, she may be right.
Grove, this is déjà vu as we all know. The good Dr. Harley himself told you to move on. I am not sure I agree if that is not what you want. But let me explain what I mean by that.
What is clear is that you will never have a trustworthy relationship with your WW until she decides to be an open book, to come clean on her past behavior, and to be honest with you. She will not decide to do these things, until, if at all, she is forced to face the consequences of her actions. She will not have to face the consequences of her actions as long as you continue to enable her sense of entitlement and believe her outlandish lies.
If on the other hand, you want to continue to accept the crumbs she keeps sending your way, then by all means continue on your course of action and believe whatever she tells you even if you eyes, ears and your intuition tell you otherwise. If that is your goal, then I think you are correct in disregarding what Dr. Harley have told you to do.
Sorry for the 2 x 4, but here’s hoping someday you will wake up from the river in Egypt, called DENIAL.
