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Looking for any encouragement or advice regarding setting and enforcing of boundaries in a stalemate situation.
WW and I are still in the same house. Sleep in separate rooms since exposure. She won't speak to me except for clipped information only sentences. This has gone on since end of January. I know she is still in contact with OM. Phone at least. The kids notice she won't speak to me. She's out late at work or a meeting almost everynight to get away from house while I'm there. I assume she's still active in A since she's still so nasty and has made no effort to improve things. Believe she's saving money to move out. I'll need to just go sit down and talk to her after the kids are asleep and she's gone to bed (probably 2:00am) Need advice on what to say to her. I don't expect her to respond, but I have to say something to let her know that I don't just accept her continuing her cruelty to me or her contacting OMs. What would be most effective? Thanks.
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BS (me) 40
WW 38
DD 10
DS 7
Got "I don't love you" letter 8/05.
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Fast moving board. <bada-bump!>
BS (me) 40
WW 38
DD 10
DS 7
Got "I don't love you" letter 8/05.
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Have an appt. with Steve H. for Monday am. Hope he can help me figure out a way to break the silent treatment. Any advice? Thanks!
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BS (me) 40
WW 38
DD 10
DS 7
Got "I don't love you" letter 8/05.
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Have you seen a lawyer to know your options?
It is good to talk to Steve Harley. Let us know how it went.
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