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Re: Is he cheating??
moveforward #1549798 01/01/06 05:50 PM
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I know. I am second guessing. And you are not being mean, I need this. i am acting like a baby, and I cannot help it. I am feeling sorry for myself - I know it. One minute I am strong , the next minute, week.

I need a plan. I do know what I have to do (scary as hel*), but I am going to do it. I feel as though I need someone to tell me exactly what I need to say to work & OWH... I do not have the confidence in myself to do this. I want to. I need a huge group of people sitting around me coaching me..

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Re: Is he cheating??
Alison222 #1549799 01/01/06 05:52 PM
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Alison, lay down your plan and stop freaking out. Now is not the time to second guess yourself every 10 seconds. Lay down the plan and don't let anything divert you.

"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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Re: Is he cheating??
Alison222 #1549800 01/01/06 05:56 PM
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That is what you have here. Did you read Jay's mom's thread?

Listen to what Melody has to tell you on exposure. She will help you.
Re: Is he cheating?? - CHECK THIS OUT!!!
moveforward #1549801 01/01/06 09:55 PM
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Just got of the phone with H. I very very calmly laid it on the line ofr him again and said to him, "I know you are having an affair, blah blah blah" Blah meaning reiterating the facts/evidence that I have. so he says, "okay so I am having an affair, lets just go with that. I don't care anymore, tell the world. I am tired of dealing with this. I just don't care anymore. You can tell everyone you caught us screwing on the floor and I wouldn't care - I am just tired. now what?" So I calmly asked him, " so you are admitting that you are having an affair" and he said, "no I am just telling you what you believe and what you want to hear. I can't convince you otherwise, can I"


So here I am again, not sure what to do. Second guessing as usual, needing some major advice.. [email]HELP@@@[/email]

Separated: 12/18/2005
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