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Re: Serial cheating ???
intexas #1550820 03/07/06 07:08 PM
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Here is what I read in his email:

[i] Intexas, you seem to be pulling your life together nicely. My life is falling apart, but if I try to make nicey nice with you, maybe you won't make me accountable for my bad decisions. Please don't make me stick to a parenting plan, and surely you don't expect me to write my own checks for bills. I am so lost because of my poor choices and if you were my friend, you would make my life easier by doing the wifely stuff that I still need"

Me-41 BS (FWS)
DH-41 WS (FBS)
2DD's- 10 and 12
Married 15 years
Separated for 2 years after my A
Reconciled for 1 year before his A
D-day for his A 8/23/05
WH moved out 9/16/05
Divorce final 1/23/07
Affair ended or month or so later
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Re: Serial cheating ???
Jean36 #1550821 03/07/06 07:14 PM
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You know--I hate being referred to as a friend in all of this. He keeps saying he wants us to be friends. I was his best friend. SHE was his best friend through this. SHE was the only FRIEND he had.

Another way to make him feel better?

BW-me, 29
XH, 29
3 sons-now 6,4,2
Divorce final--Sept. 27, 2006.
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