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Of course - the atty won't get a bunch of money if you end up fixing the marriage and don't get a D.

Lawyers. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

*Note to lawyers reading this. I didn't specifically mean you. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


Me (BS) 36 FWW 35 Married 5/25/91 DS-7 DD - Born 11/8/05 !!! PA #1 12/1996 PA #2 4/01 to 1/04 NC 1/04 There are people in the world so hungry, that God cannot appear to them except in the form of bread. - Mahatma Gandhi Don't think exposure is a good idea? Go here... From Harley Himself
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Allison,

Bide your time. Do not say anything to anyone. As soon as possible, have your lawyer issue a subpeona duces tecum to OMH and his attorney for the video. Once you have the video, play it for WH's Mom & Dad and, then, sit back and watch the you know what fly....

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Brit\'sBrat - You rock with your podius linguistical duces teacup delirus confabulor.

Seriously Alison. Do the...um..thing that Brit\'s Brat says.


Me (BS) 36 FWW 35 Married 5/25/91 DS-7 DD - Born 11/8/05 !!! PA #1 12/1996 PA #2 4/01 to 1/04 NC 1/04 There are people in the world so hungry, that God cannot appear to them except in the form of bread. - Mahatma Gandhi Don't think exposure is a good idea? Go here... From Harley Himself
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Okay I called his parents and told them that H would be calling them to tell them everything, but I simply said, it is not the truth, if you want to know the truth please call me. New evidence has come up.

Hope thats cool. Have to run to the store - be right back..


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Oh my, what a GREAT idea. They can have family video night together.

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I want my lawyer to do that - issue a supbena. shoot - gotta run to the store. Keep writing - I will be right back...


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"Hope thats cool. Have to run to the store - be right back.."

I guess she's going out for popcorn.

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They can have family video night together

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Me (BS) 36 FWW 35 Married 5/25/91 DS-7 DD - Born 11/8/05 !!! PA #1 12/1996 PA #2 4/01 to 1/04 NC 1/04 There are people in the world so hungry, that God cannot appear to them except in the form of bread. - Mahatma Gandhi Don't think exposure is a good idea? Go here... From Harley Himself
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Okay I called his parents and told them that H would be calling them to tell them everything, but I simply said, it is not the truth, if you want to know the truth please call me. New evidence has come up.

Hope thats cool. Have to run to the store - be right back..

Alison, I would encourage you to call them back and make sure they have the correct story. Ask for their help in saving your marriage.


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

Exposure 101


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Alison - while you're out get a box of Depends. I don't want ANYTHING to cause me to miss a minute of the look on his face. ANYTHING.

I'm serious. Get them.

Go on now.


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Of course - the atty won't get a bunch of money if you end up fixing the marriage and don't get a D.

Lawyers. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

*Note to lawyers reading this. I didn't specifically mean you. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Seeing as you didn't mean me, I'll accept your "you rock" compliment!

Allison, please call your IL's back - don't give them specifics, but tell them that you cannot provide them more specifics at this time, for legal reasons, but graphic evidence (make sure you use that phrase because it sounds REALLY bad!!!) exists to prove the affair. They need to know this so they don't believe WH. Also, if your lucky, they'll warn WH that such evidence exists - he won't know where or how it came about and it will drive him absolutely crazy watching his back!!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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Okay, next problem. WH emailed her that he would only be communicating about DD from now on. But if he is like the typical WS after exposure, he is going to want to know how bad the damage is.

He may get together with OW to compare notes. She may want to know what her husband said, what Alison said, etc. That is unless all of this scared her so bad that she wants nothing more to do with Alison's husband.

So Alison is going to need a plan of what to say to her husband when he contacts her again - probably today.

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Go Brit Brat!!


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

Exposure 101


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OMG _ LOVE THAT LMAO - the depends comment..


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Just got this email from H:
"Let's just say that someone made an unauthorized access into Traci's verizon account and the IP address is ours.
We need to talk tonight!!!!!!!!!!"

I told him he should contact my lawyer on that one... He has it in for me...


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he just wrote me this, "Well, you might need your lawyer on this one.. it's not looking good.
You accessed someone's account illegally.
You might want to talk to me... it would be in your best interest Aly...and I mean it.. I'm not just saying that."

no what??


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Seeing as you didn't mean me, I'll accept your "you rock" compliment!

I meant you the LEAST of any iurisconsultus type.

Consaluto,
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Man, once you got on the ball, you were on a roll. You got into her account? I am so impressed. You Rock, Alison.

I guess you were listening when everyone was saying fight for your marriage.

Ok, so now, as Believer says, you need a plan.

What is your plan?

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Was there a password? If it was not password protected, I don't think it would be a violation, would it?

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I didn't do it, I hired a private Detective to get it...

Why would my IP address be on it...

NOW WHAT???


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