We are both in counseling right now. Started right after the A was exposed. He enjoys going and having someone to talk to. I believe he was upset and just said this. He HAS broken a a picture frame before....but thta's all. Honestly, it's not right either way...and if he DOES take that route, i will just call the police...

But yes, we are in counseling and will continue to go. As a matter of fact i'm going to start going to codependency support group next week. Either way, i need to learn how to depend on MYSELF and God and not on someone else.

I love him and want to work it out...but i also know he has to work through his issues.