Thirdly, I don't care about your message, no offense. I don't even care if you disagree with Harley principles. That is not the issue here. The Harley Principles speak for themselves. THE ISSUE IS YOUR OFFENSIVENESS TO ME.
MIMI:
WHY ARE YOU YELLING ??????????????????? I hear you loud and clear. Save the theatrics.
I just had a lightbulb moment. I figured it out.
There is nothing you could say about me or to me that would invoke really any offense or hurt or even 1/1000th of the way you REACT.
That is the gist of it.
There have been many people here who have taken jabs at me, made subtle and not so subtle OFFENSIVE comments about me. Ya know what? I don't really care. It has no REAL effect on me. I am who I am. I am comfortable in my life and in my decisions and I realize that some people are not gonna like me here and maybe even insult me along the way. Maybe that is too cavillear an attitude, maybe that is a flaw in me. Maybe, Maybe, Maybe.
I really am having an extremely hard time comprehending that we are having this dicussion....but so be it. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
Yes, I realize we are different and you are who you are....if it makes you feel better and gives you some satisfaction to confront me on my offensive remarks that you feel I "usually" make about you...then you go girl. Go to it. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> I have to be honest with you....I don't look at it nearly the same way you do...so my remarks and joking and OT comments are no doubt gonna make you boil and think I am running. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> No offense, but you don't have that power girl. Sorry.
In a way, I actually feel bad that we are having this conversation...I hate to think how mad you must be at times with me. You must really think I am the anti-christ. I will once again apologize for the comment (s) that I have made about you that you felt were offensive in the past, but I am just limited in my ability to see it completlly from your pov...I really am. It is a personal flaw. I accept it.
In a million and one years (yes forever) I cannot imagine having this conversation with someone else or making a specific thread to someone about the comments they may have made on an highly senstive and emotionally charged public message board that offended me. I can't. Perhaps this is why I "DON'T GET IT" with you.
NO OFFENSE to you, but I don't give anyone (at least certainly here) the power to invoke these responses from me based on what they may have said.
One year ago that may not have been the case...but it is today.
That's just me. I don't expect you to like it or care....but you asked for this conversation so I am giving it to you.
Lem <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
