sorry for all the questions but while Im piling them up, v day is coming up any suggestions on what to do? As a H I know what I should do but as a BS Im not so sure anymore


BS (me) 43
WS (her) 41
Discovered A 10/19
NC established 10/25
withdrawal ended 11/18 (the worst of it anyway)
refuses counseling
previous user name tazcliff