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J8,
She views this as a long term relationship. She was very careful to make sure I was getting divorced before anything began to develop.
I know that a resolution has to come very soon, and it will.
Thank you for your understanding of the situation.
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You're welcome. Good Luck! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
Last edited by Jennifer68; 01/22/06 12:12 AM.
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RH, I appreciate your post. It was very understanding of the situation.
About teaching her how to be a perfect mate. I don't tell her much of anything in regards to my wife or marriage. We talk about our relationship and our work. She works for the same company. She also lives far away so I don't see her very often at all. We talk on the phone mostly. But we are involved emotionally.
I would be willing to talk off line.
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a4a,
I don't judge people, you have to live with your decision not me. I try to help you to see both sides and what is best for you.
Let me get it straight here. You say she won't get involve unless you are Dv'ed. The fact that both of you involve emotionally, you have the water knee deep already. If there is PA ... this is a red flag and inconsistency on her words.
You have read MB, you know that you are currently very in-love with her. If you want to have any future relationship with her you have to appropriate step to check every stones before you leap. You might end your M and end up loosing her too. You need to look at it objectively on your situation.
-rh-
Last edited by redhat; 01/22/06 11:12 AM.
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