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oh hey! Look here! Ferris Bueller's Day Off is on one of my HBOs! I shall watch THAT instead...I mean, how hard is that choice? Laughing my tail off, or wanting to hurl. Hmmmm.


The ones who can't stand Dr. Phil are the ones who are up to no good... ("oh, he doesn't know what he's talking about...blah, blah, blah")
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OMG as I am watching this, I am hearing this [censored] say so many of the same things my WH said at the beginning....

Wanted us both

Loved us both

Wanted us to be friends

blah blah

Well once I put my foot down, he was gone......

The BS is saying so many of things I have said......

I think i am gonna be sick.......


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I got it now. It's HER fault.
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ding ding ding give this lady a prize! You said it better than Dr. Phil, Mulan

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> bwhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

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bump for Spide, in case you didn't see this.

-ol' 2long

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I did, and I am taping it when it comes on here in about 5 minutes. H and I are watching it together later tonight.

Thank you!!!


But that's totally, FEATHER PLUCKIN', INSANE!!!
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I wish my WH could see this show and see just how crazy all of this sounds..... Of course he would say his life and story is different......


Dr. Phil is my Hero for today !!!!!!


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What is interesting ... is the discussion on Phil's message board following this show ... It seems pro-polygamy groups have sent out the word to post on Phil's web site .... coming to the defense of polygamy/infidelity

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OOOooo!

I shouldn't...


Got 2much 2 do this afternoon!

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2looooooooooooong

it is a waste of your neurons (cro-magnon)

I'm telling ya ... this is a GROUP effort ... I am certain there was some sort of "heads up" on some poly message board and they came to Phil's message board en mass to plug up the toilet with their crap

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I thought that was odd too. They are pushing the idea that polyamory is more common than people think. I got ill when I read there were children involved in these "relationships"


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What a sick topic today on Dr. Phil. A new word for it does not change what it is. Affairs, Infidelity !!!

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The wife is posting on the forum. She should come here.

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Well, Pep.

I went and skimmed the whole enchilada. Lot of sauce on that enchilada. Gooey, 2.

One of you lady-type girls of the female persuasion needs 2 send Tracy an email and invite her here. I shouldn't. Really.

-ol' 2long

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I just did. We'll see what happens.


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I did too

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Hey...I didn't know you could send Tracy(the wife) an email...I know, ignorance is bliss...Anyway, I just posted to the forum as MrsWonder(they wouldn't let me use MrsWondering-too long)...it's a short post giving out this website...if the post is "approved" we might get some pretty <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />*interesting*<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" /> traffic around here based on some of the more bizarre posts that I read...just wanted to give you all the heads up...I do hope that Tracy will join us...

Mrs. W


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The site says:

"Tracy and Charles are getting help from (name of counseling center)"

This show was probably taped several weeks ago .... things must have changed by then ....

Sure does sound exactly like the "blah blah blah" SpiderSlayer's husband is saying ... nearly verbatum!

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I hope she comes here, I hope that things are going better for her.

That man thinks the sun rises and sets in his pants....I didn't think he was all that good looking.

I would kill to see the OW in this case...since he described how beautiful she was....men falling out of their chairs and what not.

I can't go on that board, those people make me insane.

God Bless,

-Caren


Always Look For Grace Given, Even in the midst of Grace Denied.

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One of the posters on Phil's site said something very very astute ....

" Whenever there is power imbalance (and this relationships reeks of it) there is a loss of respect, honesty and commitment to the the other people involved. "

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Yes, there is a serious power imbalance in that relationship. That's a good point.

-Caren


Always Look For Grace Given, Even in the midst of Grace Denied.

BS-Me 39
WH-37
Together 15 years
Married 12 years
7 kids total, His: SD20, SS18, Twin SS's 16.
Mine: DD22, DD15
Ours: DD12
Affair began Fall 04, Separated Fall 04,2 Failed Plan B attempts, False recovery of sorts Spring 05.......Still pluggin' away.
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