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Thursday - February 2, 2006
Twisted Love
Charles says he has exhausted his relationship with his wife of 19 years, and he's ready to try an alternative lifestyle. Instead of getting a divorce, Charles wants to explore polyfidelity -- a relationship where he is shared between his wife and his mistress. The mistress says she'll give it a try, but his wife, Tracy, says the thought makes her sick. Can Charles convince his wife to share him for the sake of their marriage? And what does Dr. Phil think?
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Wife says NO - says she'll try it . . .
Hmmmmm - no real surprise there. We already knew which of those two women was the skanky one!
Married 10 years
Three Children: Son(8),Daughter(6),Daughter(3)
DDay - May 6, 2004
False Recovery Begins - June 1, 2004
OW Pregnancy Revealed - June 27, 2004
False Recovery #2 Begins - August 30, 2004
OC born Feb. 25, 2005
Have chosen to have C
DDay AGAIN -- June 10,2005 - Found out contact w/OW had continued from Sept-Feb
Recovery Begins (again - let's hope it is real this time) July, 2005
C w/OC on indefinite hold while M is worked on
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Wife says NO - says she'll try it . . .
Hmmmmm - no real surprise there. We already knew which of those two women was the skanky one! Then I guess a MOW would be both- the W and the "skanky one". <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> Aren't there MOW's who post here or did you all run them off with comments like these?
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skank is a state of mind.
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M- 4 years/together 10
OC (girl) born 03/03
D-Day 08/02
True friends stab you in the front - Oscar Wilde
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Aren't there MOW's who post here or did you all run them off with comments like these? Actually,,,uhhhh,,,NO. We don't have any CURRENT MOW who post here. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Any of our WW's are just THAT ****FORMER***FWW's or MxOW <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Biggggg difference!
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Married 10 years
Three Children: Son(8),Daughter(6),Daughter(3)
DDay - May 6, 2004
False Recovery Begins - June 1, 2004
OW Pregnancy Revealed - June 27, 2004
False Recovery #2 Begins - August 30, 2004
OC born Feb. 25, 2005
Have chosen to have C
DDay AGAIN -- June 10,2005 - Found out contact w/OW had continued from Sept-Feb
Recovery Begins (again - let's hope it is real this time) July, 2005
C w/OC on indefinite hold while M is worked on
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Skank is truly a state of mind. When someone tells you and shows you who they are, BELIEVE THEM.
If it walks like a duck, quacks like duck, and acts like a duck, then "AFLAC", it's a duck.
April - Affair
May - OW tells H that she's pregnant
June - OW's H calls to inform me of affair and pregnancy
August - Present - Working diligently on marriage. In counseling at church.
December - OC Born - NO CONTACT!
May - DNA TEST NEGATIVE - MY H IS NOT THE FATHER. THANK GOD.
My new Title - BS w/ OCS (Betrayed Wife with Other Child Scare)
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Wife says NO - says she'll try it . . .
Hmmmmm - no real surprise there. We already knew which of those two women was the skanky one! Then I guess a MOW would be both- the W and the "skanky one". <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> Aren't there MOW's who post here or did you all run them off with comments like these? There's only one MOW who posts here and we haven't successfully run you off yet, but we're trying! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />
Cafe Plan B link http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2182650&page=1 The ? that made recovery possible: "Which lovebuster do I do the most that hurts the worst"? The statement that signaled my personal recovery and the turning point in our marriage recovery: "I don't need to be married that badly!" If you're interested in saving your relationship, you'll work on it when it's convenient. If you're committed, you'll accept no excuses.
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Carolyn73 --- I love this !!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> True friends stab you in the front - Oscar Wilde
Last edited by Pepperband; 01/30/06 09:39 AM.
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Depends on how one defines "skanky" - ya know? A lot like art, or porn --- <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> "I know it when I see it." LOL "AFLAC" <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> In this particular example from Dr Phil's show synopsis: The skanky ones are the two people who are willing to have a three-way love triangle ... the H and the OW are equally skanky .... stinky .... morally mal-odorous ... non-infidelity-phobic ... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />
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Carolyn73 --- I love this !!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> True friends stab you in the front - Oscar Wilde lol. i came across it on one of those daily calanders that have a pithy saying on them, and loved it too. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> i am trying to work out what AFLAC is. i am abit slow sometimes. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" /> c.
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AFLAC
is the name of an insurance company
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AFLAC TV comercials have a duck in them that instead of saying "quack" he sez "AFLAC"
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ahh, the penny drops.
at least i know i am not stupid, just not in the US!
i feel better now. lol.
BW -33 (Me)
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Carolyn - I forget that your not in the states. Pepperband explained it perfectly.
There is a commercial in the states for an insurance company called "AFLAC". Their spokesman is a duck who says "AFLAC" instead of quack. Do you get it?
April - Affair
May - OW tells H that she's pregnant
June - OW's H calls to inform me of affair and pregnancy
August - Present - Working diligently on marriage. In counseling at church.
December - OC Born - NO CONTACT!
May - DNA TEST NEGATIVE - MY H IS NOT THE FATHER. THANK GOD.
My new Title - BS w/ OCS (Betrayed Wife with Other Child Scare)
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My WH's OW proposed this particular solution to me recently <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />
Faith
me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
DS 30
DD 21
DS 15
OCDS 8
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>There's only one MOW who posts here and we haven't successfully run you off yet, but we're trying!
DOH!
>My WH's OW proposed this particular solution to me recently
Classic. Seems to be par for the course for a lot of 'em. When some think they're going to loose the man to his W, they propose this in the hopes the W will get disgusted and leave.
Plus, it plucks at the WH's "manly" self image that he would be "satisfing" 2 women at one time.
- Kimmy
I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. My Story Recovered!
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My WH's OW proposed this particular solution to me recently <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> and thus the reputation for "skanky" begins .... if you live it you own it
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Umm, this was proposed to me several times...the WS would sleep upstairs and he could do what he wanted and I could do what I wanted....he even went so far as to tell me if I wanted to date, he would watch the kids for me <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />
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Moving Foward -
Aren't you so glad not to have to put up with that kind of crap anymore????
Married 10 years
Three Children: Son(8),Daughter(6),Daughter(3)
DDay - May 6, 2004
False Recovery Begins - June 1, 2004
OW Pregnancy Revealed - June 27, 2004
False Recovery #2 Begins - August 30, 2004
OC born Feb. 25, 2005
Have chosen to have C
DDay AGAIN -- June 10,2005 - Found out contact w/OW had continued from Sept-Feb
Recovery Begins (again - let's hope it is real this time) July, 2005
C w/OC on indefinite hold while M is worked on
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Moving Foward -
Aren't you so glad not to have to put up with that kind of crap anymore???? Yes I am! The drama I see some of these people going thru brings back horrible memories and I think about how peaceful my life is now with out the daily drama of that man. He is still finding other ways of making my life he!!, but I dont have to see him or even talk to him. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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