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This one makes me especially sad because it was our wedding song. Now, if only my FWH would have meant the words.
"From This Moment" by Shania Twain I do swear…that I’ll always be there… I’d give anything and everything and I will always care Trough weakness and strength, happiness and sorrow, For better for worse, I will love you With every beat of my heart From this moment…life has begun From this moment…your are the one Right beside you is where I belong From this moment on From this moment…I have been blessed I live only for your happiness And for your love I’d give my last breath From this moment on I give my hand to you with all my heart Can’t wait to live my life with you can’t wait to start You and I will never be apart My dreams came true because of you From this moment…as long as I live I will love you…I promise you this There is nothing…I wouldn’t give From this moment on Oh oh You’re the reason I believe in love And you’re the answer to my prayers from up above All we need is just the two of us My dreams…came true…because of you From…this…moment as long as I live I will love you, I promise you this There is nothing I wouldn’t give From this moment I will love you as long as I live From this moment on
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BTW- I used to be a heavy metal music fan!!! If you love rock music or heavy metal, watch the 20 min. preview video here - FASCINATING!! Seriously, watch this!!! They Sold Their Souls for Rock n Roll http://www.goodfight.org/index.html
BS (me) 40 FWH 39 Married: 2/14/99 Together: 16 years DD 6, DS 4, DD 3, DD 2, DS 2
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Our wedding song was Perfect Union by Matthew Ward. That guy's got a crazy range and awesome voice.
I use lines from it in things I do for my WW now, like puting the chorus on the card I sent with her roses.
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REMARRIED to a wonderful woman October 13, 2012!
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Well I won't say that any are my 'favorites'. On a whole it seems that I just can't listen to music -period! - even christian. Music was a huge part of our life, more or less always on at our house/in the car plus my X is a drummer and he also loves to sing. He compiled a whole heartbreak cd which he played over and over to work on my emotions I suppose. It included songs like Backstreet Boys - Incomplete; Chicago - Look Away, Hard to Say I'm Sorry, Hard Habit to Break, If You Leave Me Now; 38 Special - Second Chance; KC and the Sunshine Band - Please Don't Go........... The following one - he held my hands, looked me dead in the eyes and sang it as it played one night while we were out getting pizza, plus a few other times. Instant breakdown if I hear it.
The Reason by Hoobastank
I'm not a perfect person There's many things I wish I didn't do But I continue learning I never meant to do those things to you And so, I have to say before I go That I just want you to know
I've found a reason for me To change who I used to be A reason to start over new And the reason is you
I'm sorry that I hurt you It's something I must live with everyday And all the pain I put you through I wish that I could take it all away And be the one who catches all your tears That's why I need you to hear
I've found a reason for me To change who I used to be A reason to start over new And the reason is you And the reason is you And the reason is you And the reason is you
I'm not a perfect person I never meant to do those things to you And so I have to say before I go That I just want you to know
I've found a reason for me To change who I used to be A reason to start over new And the reason is you
I've found a reason to show A side of me you didn't know A reason for all that I do And the reason is you
The latter will be greater than the past.
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Maybe that's a reason we had issues, our tastes in music is so different.
I'm a punk at heart, grew up listening to Black Flag, the Cramps, etc and now am big into alternative Christian and bands like U2 and Radiohead. Also listen to a lot of the modern P&W music as I play bass in my church band.
My WW on the other hand, listens to the typical "soccer mom" Christian station here in Big D. I never thought I'd hear Christian music sound so commercial.
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If I can say so myself, I think it is kind of sick of me, but I kinda 'like' this song - not too sure of the exact meaning but it reminds me of what the X did.......
Mr. Brightside by Killers, The
Coming out of my cage And I've been doin' just fine Gotta gotta be down Because I want it all It started out with a kiss How did it end up like this? It was only a kiss It was only a kiss
Now I'm falling asleep And she's calling a cab While he's having a smoke And she's taking a drag
Now they're going to bed And my stomach is sick And it's all in my head But she's touching his chest now He takes off her dress now Let me go
And I just can't look It's killing me And taking control
Jealousy Turning saints into the sea Swimming through sick lullabies Choking on your alibis But it's just the price I pay Destiny is calling me Open up my eager eyes Cus i'm Mr. Brightside
I'm coming out of my cage And I've been doin' just fine Gotta gotta be down Because I want it all It started out with a kiss How did it end up like this? It was only a kiss It was only a kiss
Now I'm falling asleep And she's calling a cab While he's having a smoke And she's taking a drag
Now they're going to bed And my stomach is sick And it's all in my head But she's touching his chest now He takes off her dress now Let me go
Cus I just can't look It's killing me And taking control
Jealousy Turning saints into the sea Swimming through sick lullabies Choking on your alibis But it's just the price I pay Destiny is calling me Open up my eager eyes Cus i'm Mr. Brightside
I never I never I never I never
The latter will be greater than the past.
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Tonio K. "Romeo and Jane"
"i've heard of unfaithful lovers but this is outrageous soon the national enquirer will run the front pages i saw shakespeare and cheetah crying in their margaritas bad news
romeo loves jane the jungle will never be the same and juliet's crying again romeo loves jane
now in a wold full of hurt how can anybody blame them and in the heat of wild love how can anybody tame them they have fallen east of eden now
good love gone bad bad love gone wild wild love gone mad mad love out of control"
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My brother gave me a Coldplay CD right after H left me. At the time we were still working on the M. Everytime I heard the "What if" song I cried.
"What If?" by Coldplay
What if there was no lie Nothing wrong, nothing right What if there was no time And no reason, or rhyme What if you should decide That you don't want me there by your side That you don't want me there in your life What if I got it wrong And no poem or song Could put right what I got wrong Or make you feel I belong
What if you should decide That you don't want me there by your side That you don't want me there in your life
Ooh ooh-ooh, that's right Let's take a breath, jump over the side Ooh ooh-ooh, that's right How can you know it, if you don't even try Ooh ooh-ooh, that's right
Every step that you take Could be your biggest mistake It could bend or it could break That's the risk that you take
What if you should decide That you don't want me there by your side That you don't want me there in your life
Ooh ooh-ooh, that's right Let's take a breath, jump over the side Ooh ooh-ooh, that's right How can you know when you don't even try Ooh ooh-ooh, that's right
Ohhh - Ooh ooh-ooh, that's right, Let's take a breath, jump over the side. Ooh ooh-ooh, that's right, You know that darkness always turns into light. Ooh-ooh, that's right
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Well, H did decide he did not want me by his side.....
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When H and I first met, I bought this beautiful summer dress. It was yellow and H wrote me a beautiful love letter saying he imagined me standing in a field in the yellow dress holding our child.......
The song "yellow" by Coldplay always remind me of that moment........it breaks my heart every time......by the end H did not even want to have children........
"Yello", by Coldplay... Look at the stars, Look how they shine for you, And everything you do, Yeah, they were all yellow. I came along, I wrote a song for you, And all the things you do, And it was called yellow. So then I took my turn, Oh what a thing to have done, And it was all yellow. Your skin Oh yeah, your skin and bones, Turn into something beautiful, You know, you know I love you so, You know I love you so. I swam across, I jumped across for you, Oh what a thing to do. Cos you were all yellow, I drew a line, I drew a line for you, Oh what a thing to do, And it was all yellow. Your skin, Oh yeah your skin and bones, Turn into something beautiful, And you know for you, I’d bleed myself dry for you, I’d bleed myself dry. It’s true, look how they shine for you, Look how they shine for you, Look how they shine for, Look how they shine for you, Look how they shine for you, Look how they shine. Look at the stars, Look how they shine for you, And all the things that you do.
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I guess I am an old soul....or maybe I am just old. But to me the classic tear jerker song is "He Stopped Loving Her Today" by George Jones....the old possum.
He said "I'll love you till I die", She told him "You'll forget in time" As the years went slowly by, She still preyed upon his mind
He kept her picture on his wall, Went half-crazy now and then He still loved her through it all, Hoping she'd come back again
Kept some letters by his bed Dated nineteen sixty-two He had underlined in red Every single "I love you" I went to see him just today, Oh but I didn't see no tears All dressed up to go away, First time I'd seen him smile in years
He stopped loving her today They placed a wreath upon his door And soon they'll carry him away He stopped loving her today
You know, she came to see him one last time. Oh, and' we all wondered if she would. And it kept running' through my mind- "This time he's over her for good."
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[quote]I guess I am an old soul....or maybe I am just old. But to me the classic tear jerker song is "He Stopped Loving Her Today" by George Jones....the old possum.
My favorite George Jones story is the classic when he came home wasted from the bar - wanted to go back out for more and his wife hid the keys to the car, so of course he took the riding lawn mower - to the bar
This is me - carnation
Me - BS 55
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Much evidence says that my H was/is
deeply involved in a very long term PA
Prolly will never know much more than that
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I was watching CMT today and saw the video of this song by Sara Evans called : Cheaten , I think it fits right in here :
You say your every day Is a bad dream that keeps repeatin' Maybe you should've thought about that When you were cheatin'
How do you like that furnished room, the bed, the chair, the table The TV pictures goes in and out, too bad you don't have cable How do you like that paper plate, and those pork-n-beans you're eatin' Maybe you should've thought about that When you were cheatin'
How do you like that beat up car, I think it's fair we traded You pick up truck is running fine, it's a cozy ride for datin' Yes, I've been out a time or two, and found the comfort I've been needin Maybe you should've thought about that When you were cheatin'
You made your bed and your out of mine You lie awake and I sleep just fine You've done your sowing, now you can do your reaping Maybe you should've thought about that When you were cheatin'
What became of what's her name, after she spent all your money Did she leave you like you left me, sometimes life is funny But I'll be glad to take you back, just as soon as I stop breathin Maybe you should've thought about that Maybe you should've thought about that When you were cheatin' When you were cheatin'
As I was watching this it made me wonder how many people have lived this once its over..... They find out the grass is not always greener.....
Anyhow I thought it was interesting and fit so many of our WS'S......
BS (Me)- 47 WH - 46 Married- 24 yrs 3 children 15,19,22 2 grandsons D-Day- June17, 2005 while I was 1400 miles away WH living with OW since July 05 WH filed divorce papers Dec. 22, 05 Divorced granted June 28, 06
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I swear, you people are too sappy! Here is my "heartbreak song" : <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />
Artist: Nazareth Song: Hair of the Dog Lyrics
Heart breaker, soul shaker I've been told about you Steamroller, midnight stroller What they've been saying must be true
Bridge: Red hot mama Velvet charmer Time's come to pay your dues
Chorus: Now you're messin' with a A son of a ****** Now you're messin' with a son of a ****** Now you're messin' with a A son of a ****** Now you're messin' with a son of a ******
Talkin' jivey, poison ivy You ain't gonna cling to me Man taker, born faker I ain't so blind I can't see
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Good one Melody.
The only one here that I actually sang along with !!!
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Me - BS 55
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Much evidence says that my H was/is
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Good one Melody.
The only one here that I actually sang along with !!!
Carnation <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I heard this one today. Made me really sad!!
"When God Made You"
(Verse 1) Its always been a mystery to me How two hearts can come together And love can last forever But now that I have found you, I believe That a miracle has come When God sends the perfect one Now gone are all my questions about why And Ive never been so sure of anything in my life (Chorus) I wonder what God was thinking When He created you I wonder if He knew everything I would need Because He made all my dreams come true When God made you He must have been thinking about me (Verse 2) I promise that wherever you may go Wherever life may lead you With all my heart Ill be there too From this moment I want you to know Ill let nothing come between us And I will love the ones you love Now gone are all my question about why And Ive never been so sure of anything in my life (Repeat Chorus) (Bridge) He made the sun He made the moon To harmonize in perfect tune One cant move without the other They just have to be together And that is why I know its true Youre for me and Im for you Cause my world just cant be right Without you in my life (Repeat Chorus) (Tag) He mustve heard every prayer Ive been praying Yes He knew everything I would need When God made you When dreams come true When God made you He mustve been thinking about me
BS (me) 40 FWH 39 Married: 2/14/99 Together: 16 years DD 6, DS 4, DD 3, DD 2, DS 2
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LMAO Mel
Here's one I like.
Objection (Tango) Shakira
It's not her fault that she's so irresistible But all the damage she's caused isn't fixable Every twenty seconds you repeat her name But when it comes to me you don't care if I'm alive or dead
So objection I don't wanna be the exception To get a bit of your attention I love you for free and I'm not your mother But you don't even bother
Objection I'm tired of this triangle Got dizzy dancing tango I'm falling apart in your hands again No way I've got to get away
Next to her cheap silicon I look minimal That's why in front of your eyes I'm invisible But you gotta know small things also count You better put your feet on the ground And see what it's about
Objection I don't wanna be the exception To get a bit of your attention I love you for free and I'm not your mother But you don't even bother
Objection I'm tired of this triangle Got dizzy dancing tango I'm falling apart in your hands again No way I've got to get away
I wish there was a chance for you and me I wish you couldn't find a place to be Away from here
This is pathetic and sardonic It's sadistic and psychotic Tango is not for three Was never meant to be
But you can try it Rehearse it Or train like a horse But don't you count on me Don't you count on me boy
Objection I don't wanna be the exception To get a bit of your attention I love you for free and I'm not your mother But you don't even bother
Objection I'm tired of this triangle Got dizzy dancing tango I'm falling apart in your hands again No way I've got to get away
Yeah! Tell 'em Shakira!!! LOL
-Caren
Always Look For Grace Given, Even in the midst of Grace Denied.
BS-Me 39 WH-37 Together 15 years Married 12 years 7 kids total, His: SD20, SS18, Twin SS's 16. Mine: DD22, DD15 Ours: DD12 Affair began Fall 04, Separated Fall 04,2 Failed Plan B attempts, False recovery of sorts Spring 05.......Still pluggin' away.
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Creed *One Last Breath*
Please come now I think I'm falling I'm holding on to all I think is safe It seems I found the road to nowhere And I'm trying to escape I yelled back when I heard thunder But I'm down to one last breath And with it let me say Let me say
Hold me now I'm six feet from the edge and I'm thinking That maybe six feet Ain't so far down
I'm looking down now that it's over Reflecting on all of my mistakes I thought I found the road to somewhere Somewhere in His grace I cried out heaven save me But I'm down to one last breath And with it let me say Let me say
Hold me now I'm six feet from the edge and I'm thinking That maybe six feet Ain't so far down
Sad eyes follow me But I still believe there's somthing left for me So please come stay with me 'Cause I still believe there's something left for you and me For you and me For you and me
Hold me now I'm six feet from the edge and I'm thinking
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this song is really special to me ,, a friend of my DD sings it . THE Special Two I've hardly been outside my room in days, 'cause I don't feel that I deserve the sunshine's rays. The darkness helped until the whiskey wore away, and it was then I realized the conscience never fades. When you're young you have this image of your life: that you'll be scrupulous and one day even make a wife. And you make boundaries you'd never dream to cross, and if you happen to you wake completely lost. But I will fight for you, be sure that I will fight until we're the special two once again. And we will only need each other, we'll bleed together, our hands will not be taught to hold another's, 'cause we're the special two. And we could only see each other, we'll breathe together, these arms will not be taught to need another's, 'cause we're the special two. I remember someone old once said to me: "that lies will lock you up with truth the only key." But I was comfortable and warm inside my shell, and couldn't see this place could soon become my ******. So is it better to tell and hurt or lie to save their face? Well I guess the answer is don't do it in the first place. I know I'm not deserving of your trust from you right now, but if by chance you change your mind you know I will not let you down 'cause we were the special two, and will be again. And we will only need each other, we'll bleed together, our hands will not be taught to hold another's, 'cause we're the special two. And we could only see each other, we'll breathe together, these arms will not be taught to need another's, 'cause we're the special two. I step outside my mind's eye's for a minute. And I look over me like a doctor looking for disease, or something that could ease the pain. But nothing cures the hurt you bring on by yourself, just remembering, just remembering how we were... When we would only need each other, we'd bleed together, these hands would not be taught to hold another's, When we would only need each other, we'd bleed together, these hands would not be taught to hold another's, we we're the special two. And we could only see each other, we'd bleed together, these arms will not be taught to need another's, 'cause we're the special two. Written By Missy Higgins Missy Higgins hear them here
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