FHL,<P>That is exactly what Steve Harley told me. Focus. Stop & think before you say anything. If he says something which might hurt you, don't bat an eye. If he says something to surprise you, say you'll have to think about it. Whatever you do, don't lovebust.<P>------------------<BR>Prayers & God Bless!<BR>Chris<BR>For relationship info check out <A HREF="http://www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html" TARGET=_blank>www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html</A> <BR>