Iam,

I know its hard truly I do. I understand the breaking point as well. I have been there just thank God I was in planB so I couldn't rant at him.

I just went in my room and punched a pillow and then wrote the nastiest letter I could to him and OW ... It helped get it all out. After a day or so I tore the letters up so they could not fall in the wrong hands.


You will be just fine, I promise.....


Hurting

I will write those letters today and mail them tomorrow.

I have no idea where her parents are or even their names. She has had so many names she probably forgets them. Her kids are all under 10 and her last ex has them in New Jersey I believe. I called her hubby, told him who I was and exactly what was going on alone with what proof I have. He was quite for a few minutes then he said "I knew it. Leave me alone. She's no longer going to be living here." He hung up.

I exposed to his parents and they were devastated. His father cried. They called me, very supportive and told me I will always be family. His mother still calls a couple times a week but has said that he is her son and she can't diwown him. I see that as condoning. I told his siblings. His brother, whom he lives with, is very angry with him. His sister said I need to let him go and be happy.

I have told everyone he knows that I know and they all are shocked and sickened. My friends have basically turned away from me like it's contagious or something. I haven't talked to our priest because he stopped going to church when this all started. I have told my children. My 15 year old is devastated and cut him off completely. My 22 year old says she doesn't believe it's true but if it is and it makes him happy I should let go.

Can you do a search on www.peoplefinder.com to see if you glean her parents' names? Sometimes you can get this for free.

I tried searching for her name there that's how I found her husband. I don't know her maiden name though. Thanks for your help Melody