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H called early this morning to "check on me and make sure I made it to work OK". Then stopped in later to see me. Then called again later and left a message that he was "just checking in on me" and to tell me he loves me.

What the ******? I have no idea who this man is. When I move out will all of this just stop? How can he turn that off so easily? I just don't get it.

But the weird thing is. A week ago I'd have been in tears when he done that. Today, it just goes in one ear and out the other. I mean, I like to hear it. It makes me feel good to hear it. But at the same time, I'm thinking, what does it matter? Make sense?

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Everyone have a good evening. Let's remember to remember each other in our prayers!

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Hi everyone. I feel so frustrated right now, I just wish I could slap my husband and tell him to snap out of it. He told me he feels like if he stays with me it is wrong and if he leaves me it is also wrong. When I moved out for 2 weeks he became convinced I had an affair and says he can't trust me. I don't know what I can do to convince him otherwise. its frustrating b/c I know for a fact he did have an affair, yet I am able to look past that and other things as well, but he can't look past something he doesn't even have proof happened. What can I do? Now he wants me to sign over our house free and clear to him as part of building his trust in me. I don't know. Once I aggreed to do this, he hasn't responed to my calls or text msgs. since.

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Beaux, don't sign the house over to him. Your post has red flags all over it. Why does he think you had an affair?

Our little group has a Monday post, jump on over on it.

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HE THINKS i WAS HAVING AN AFFAIR B/C I WENT OUT WITH MY FRIENDS AND HIS FRIENDS SAW ME DANCING WITH MY EX FROM 5 YEARS AGO. MAYBE HE THOUGHT THE ONLY REASON I LEFT WAS FOR ANOTHER MAN, BUT IT HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH THAT. HOW DO I JUMP ON YALLS MONDAY POST? I'M AFRAID IF I DON'T SIGN THE HOUSE OVER TO HIM THEN I'LL NEVER HAVE A CHANCE AT RECONCILIATION WITH HIM.

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Just click on the "Good Morning" post from today. We'll be glad to have you.


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Instead of posting on this thread, post on todays thread. It should be right below this one. DO NOT sign the house over to him. Whose name the house is in has nothing to do with reconciliation.

Are you in MC? IC?

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