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THank you worthatry and weneedhelp.


LLG=Living, Learning, Growing formerly reallyconcerned
Trying to stop fearing and start living
BS-35
WS-33
kids, yes
1 D-day 8/2003, 2nd D-day 1/2006
Current status:
Working in Plan A.
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really....I just noticed this thread....sigh...tax season and I am a CPA...I have been posting but it's been haphazard...I'll look at this thread tonight and get back to you...promise..


Me BS - 44
FWW- 42
EA for 4 years with fellow employee
became PA in Jan 04 - I knew of this one.
Seperated/ Divorced July 03
2 sons 14 & 12
D Day -6/26/04- PA in 1998 for about 1 year- I had NO idea.
recovery and reconciliation began 6/27/04

Remarried 2/18/06

My story?? Click below.

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Main=129980&Number=1575914
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RC...you have been given really great advice. You are trying your best at Plan A. You probably need to look forward and continue to plan. What I notice is that people "take too much" from their WS...and you're not alone because I know that I certainy took way too much and I did not know about my wife's PA!! So Plan A and do not be a door mat!!

MC is useless while still engaged in A like WAT said.

Look, keep reading, keep us posted and we'll help out as best we can. Success or failure of your plan lies with you. Even if marriage fails you can eventually feel good about you and your efforts.


Me BS - 44
FWW- 42
EA for 4 years with fellow employee
became PA in Jan 04 - I knew of this one.
Seperated/ Divorced July 03
2 sons 14 & 12
D Day -6/26/04- PA in 1998 for about 1 year- I had NO idea.
recovery and reconciliation began 6/27/04

Remarried 2/18/06

My story?? Click below.

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Main=129980&Number=1575914
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