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yup, I saw that ENTIRE post coming a mile away.....

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uh oh.....you tellin me, im getting "predictable"???


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predictable as the weather... and it is NOT to hard to figure out how YOUR mind works... ha
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O_O

OMG...what has become of this thread...it's getting so......


PERVERTED.

I like it!



hahahaha....

really tho do I need to spank someone and put them in the corner? *glances at sturgi* really mr. authority figure?

btw did I tell you i am joining the police academy in the fall?

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""btw did I tell you i am joining the police academy in the fall?""



oh yeah??? where at or for who????

im LAPD


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oh surviving, thank god you are back! distract sturgi would ya?! lol

top o' the morning to ya sturg... go work your magic on surviving for a while haha

have a good day everyone!! mlhb


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it's in monterey.....i'm gonna go through and do all my P.O.S.T certification...there are alot of positions open in Monterey County.

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hey chicka...yeah i'm still here barely...I am doing better. not crying as much...but i still have my rough days. It'll just take awhile. anywho gotta go let the dog out and such.

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monterey is BEAUTIFUL...i actually looked at lateralling up to SLO many yrs ago...but couldnt handle the pay cut....regret that now tho....

are you going to get hired first by MPD or MSO???? thats the way to go IMO, they will pay for everything and PAY you too...

im bummed about the holllister rally being cancelled this year...i used to ride there every yr and stay downtown monterey....i love it up there!!!

let me know if you need any advice or pointers...be more than happy to help ya!!!

good luck


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Hey surviving... keep your chin up... you are going to be just fine. I know it hurts, but you have come through worse, am I right? We are here for ya. Think of all the great men you will meet joining the PD... well, maybe ya will anyway <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
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take care and keep posting... mlhb


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today was a bad day....i just felt like crying all day...also running on 3 hours sleep didn't help...he hasn't called to schedule our talk we are supposed to have. the whole myspace thing gawd MLHB i need your email addy to tell you that one. Today I am severly emotional. this relationship was the first longer term attatched relationship I have had since my XH and I split...and the most painful. Never have I given so much to someone and then just felt like my heart has been trampled. I need these emotions to stop I know it's good to get them out...but I swear today I have been having an anxiety attack...I've had a pain in my chest and it's hard to breath. feels like someone is sitting on my chest.

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if you need to talk my email is mboyea2@yahoo.com
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relax. i've been there. still am a little bit. do what's best for you to get through this. don't let him run your emotions.

we both have been through the situations with the exs. now is not a time to settle for anything less that what you want and need.

besides he's just a guy, wait i'm just a guy.

anyway, good luck

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T_T ok so i had plans to do stuff this weekend....then this morning at like some where areound 3, 4, or 5 am....I didn't look at the clock....I woke up sick as a dog.....took some pepto bismol in hopes it would stop my stomach pain and ease the nausea.....but i feel like a zombie. But hey easiest diet i've ever had.....i have nothing left in my system and I can't eat...go figure. who says break ups don't help in some way.

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kick that sick bug and get out and do all that fun stuff you had planned for the weekend girl! you better! mlhb


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so surviving, did you kick that bug and get out there and have some fun this weekend???? mlhb


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well this weekend was in fact busy....went friday with my best friend to a special ladies night at a local night club....they had male strippers.....it was hilarious....sat night we threw a pleasure party at a store a friend of ours owns...I got a sweet hot looking boostie` (sp?) ...which I wore sunday night when I went and had it out with my now ex boyfriend....I feel so much better this week now that I got everything off my chest I was feeling I told him everything....it's like a huge burden is lifted off my shoulders...I even did some of orchids famous dialog....he had told me he didn't have feelings for me...at one point he was tearing up and was looking upset but wouldn't talk to me...i said why do you look like that....you shouldn't be upset your not the one loosing something...remember you don't have feelings for me.....i laid it all out for him...when he asked me to leave....I hugged him (yes I was crying) and he started crying (for a man who has no feelings he is weird)....but all I did was kiss him on the cheek and I told him I loved him because I do and then I walked out the door. you would have been proud i did handle it well and I feel much better after getting it all out and done with. I had gone to lunch with a friend of mine earlier that day and he had told me if I needed any help to call him immediatly. It's nice to know I have friends who care (big nice strong friends who are marines hoooora). He is a sweet guy and I know he likes me but he knows how hurt I am and that it will take a bit to get over my now ex...because like i told my ex. I did not waste 6 months of my life on him. I care for him very much. But this is the start of a new dawning in my life...and I feel stronger despite the set back. (((hugs M))) thanks for caring sista. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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thank you surviving... I do care. We've all been in those shoes at one time or another. I am glad your weeeknd was not wasted and sounds like it was productive. I always feel better when I unburdon myself. The other person does not always feel so good but... lol

take care, email me if you need to talk ever. mlhb

(I am waiting for sturgis to chime in on the "boostie" you bought! haha I don't know how to spell it either , I am quite sure the way we are spelling it is wrong! but who cares. )


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ok...ok...ok....how could i resist this!!!!!

""and he started crying ""


the mind is a terrible thing to waste...cuz....my mind is runnig wild with all sorts pictures of how the boostie looked!!!!

the tears are flowin chicky!!!!! youth is wasted on the wrong people!!!

just sit back, relax...and do everything the "nice" officer tells you to.....uh.....wait....

...........dang it.....wrong chat room!!!

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yup, knew that would get a bite from good old sturgis.. haha

I am sure we don't want to know the other chat rooms you go into !! LOL

caught any bad guys lately???

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